Approaching contentious topics in conversation is always a touchy proposition considering my stance on most issues. The War in Afghanistan, Prison Policy, Educational Policy and Patriarchy are all minefields that are necessarily carefully navigated through as disagreeing too much with the dominant point of view only leads to consternation and frustration on both sides of the conversation.
Sadly, we end up talking about ‘other’ topics and any sort of give or take is eliminated because of the calcified nature of conservatism in Alberta. Take for instance the Oilsands, a blight in Northern Alberta that is poisoning the environment and the people who live near them. The counter argument, jobs and the economy of course. We are making money and that takes precedence over all. Once the Athabasca river is thoroughly contaminated and the people living near it have moved away or died, things will be fine I imagine.
Similarly in Afghanistan, I’m sure once we kill enough of the Taliban peace and prosperity will firmly take hold and we can make a gracious exit and commend ourselves on a job well done. The alternate picture, perpetual war against a embittered, radicalized population does not to have much traction, although it is a narrative much closer to the reality of the situation in Afghanistan at present. I imagine though that we’ll eventually end up blaming the Afghan people for being too backward, too corrupt and too sectarian for our benevolent efforts (bombing the crap out of everything) and disengage while calling it mendaciously, a victory for our side. Consider the magic woven in Vietnam where America came out of the war eventually demanding reparations from the Vietnamese for their actions… Imperial hubris is wonderful.
Hubris aside, the mentality of some conservatives can be somewhat trying, especially with regards to crime and prisons. The verdict is in, and the evidence points to one clear concept. Punishing people does not ‘fix’ them. More punishment is not the solution. Here is where I get accused of being “soft” on crime. Quite bluntly, dealing with the precursors to crime and criminality – poverty, discrimination, and inequality- is a much more efficient and effective way to deal with crime in a society. I assert with certainty we will still need prisons because necessarily, there exists in any population a percentage of people who simply do not fit in and need to be segregated from the general population. The focus though needs to be on the precursors and getting people the skills they need to become a member of society that does not need to commit crime.
Educational policy dovetails into the discussion of the justice system as it has been noted that in punishment heavy modes of operation, educational policy can act as a feeder system for the criminal justice system. Again, the idea that we can punish (people) children into becoming what we want is deleteriously wrong notion that needs to be dispelled from the schools. The fear of punishment works for many, but not all children. For those who do not have the skills to behave correctly punishing them more only pushes them further away from our goal of nurturing and educating people to become contributing members of our society.
Like the unreality of the punishment point of view the view that Feminism is over and women have achieved equality in our society is a persistent meme that needs to be corrected. The Patriarchy is not dead, our culture is a rape culture and women are still second class citizens at their very best. Is the work of eradicating the massive inequality built into our culture even close to being done, heck no. Not acknowledging that the work needs to be done retards progress significantly, as again, the case must be made, defended and writ large so the proper context can be established and the idea that feminism is not “over” can be vanquished (again).
The theme of this post has been pretty much “waaaa! it sucks having to constatantly contradict the dominant cultural and historical narrative, look how much work it is!!!!”. I realize that, but I write to educate those who wonder why when they talk about certain topics with their progressive friends they all of a sudden get that tired 1000 kilometer stare.



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November 15, 2010 at 9:37 am
Offroad Artist
Much agreement with your interesting breakdown. One thing that bears mentioning is re your comment that “disagreeing too much with the dominant point of view only leads to consternation”…
By far the dominant point of view in Canada is that of tolerant liberalism. Only 30% are on board with Harper (including what 60-70% of Albertans?) and the rest are to the left. Conservatism may be strong in Alberta and its proponents may be aggressive, vocal, and quick to frustrate, due to lack of knowledge with which to back up their Faux-News-clip talking points, but I hardly find them dominant in any way.
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November 15, 2010 at 1:03 pm
The Arbourist
Well, living in the belly of the beast is a little trying at times. I hope that Canadians can balance out some of the loony here in Alberta come next election. Perhaps we’ll get two Non-Conservative seats. :)
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November 16, 2010 at 10:20 am
Vern R. Kaine
Hi Arb,
You always have very well-articulated points in your arguments, something which I always appreciate. As someone who considers themselves a conservative, I’d like to respond.
First, often the differences aren’t in the theory behind our positions, but in their application. I find often that the arguments from the left are very high-level, and miss a lot of the pertinent details on the ground.
For instance, your comment that “dealing with the precursors to crime and criminality – poverty, discrimination, and inequality… is a much more efficient and effective way to deal with crime in a society”. How much time do you think is required to solve these issues, and what do you propose happens in the meantime?
The deterrent of prison aside, many of these criminals need to be kept apart from society while all this nice and hopeful reform is going on. Yes, all this social reform is great, but in the meantime we need more enforcement, punishment, and incarceration as key and necessary factors in reducing (not solving) the issues that exist out there. Not the “why did Johnny do this?” issue, but “how do I keep Johnny from stealing my stuff or murdering my family while his head’s being sorted out” issue.
Also, because of the “innocent until proven guilty” position we have, we often have to wait until someone’s actually committed a crime before any of these social programs and resources can kick in. Otherwise, how do you distinguish between those wanting to commit a crime from those who actually will? Isn’t it more “efficient” to address this issue at the bottom of the funnel rather than the top?
Second, I disagree with your position on what the precursors to crime are. You suggest environmental factors, that we’ve somehow created this evil world around all the people who would have otherwise NOT become criminals. I disagree, and this is what I feel is a major flaw in the left’s position. The left prefers to blame society – this nebulous, diluted, moving target and faceless enemy rather than the people who are usually most responsible (for example) for a child’s delinquency – the parents. Poverty is a precursor to crime only when the person decides to use it as an excuse. Same with discrimination. These become the convenient excuses that every child abuser, neglecter, juvenile delinquent, and hardened criminal uses to pass of responsibility for their own actions. I never see ANY left-leaning, liberal blog or advocate who places the blame where it should be placed – on the offending individual or their parent, and in the penal system where this wordview is in force, the results speak for themselves. The movie “Dear Zachary” is a shining example of this.
Third, the vehicle for your proposed solutions. More money and left-leaning thinking into public coffers only produces more poorly behaved children, juvenile delinquents, and parolees going free to recommit murders. If you’ve worked directly as or with any elementary teachers, prison employees, police officers, or social workers, you know this.
Sure, there are statistics to say the opposite, but I challenge those who are producing the statistics. In the areas I’ve worked in personally, they are horribly flawed and designed mostly to cover people’s own asses and protect their own jobs. I have not seen more money into the Alberta education system produce smarter or better-behaved children, reduce poverty, or reduce the amount of crime beyond any other factor than sheer luck could have produced on its own.
I guess all-in-all, my position from the right is that almost always on the left, the blame is missplaced to such a degree that any sort of solution proposed is either so general it’s effectively wrong, or so slow that it’s ultimately ineffective.
The position on the left seems too often to be theory-driven to the point where they’re negligent of (or apathetic towards) any on-the-ground actual results, and the position on the far right seems too often to be that correlation is causation, and where the “bigger picture” gets overlooked. I’m all for finding an effective balance between the two, but I don’t see it happening through those on the left with a world view that never seems to acknowledge or criticize the responsibility of the individual.
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November 16, 2010 at 5:41 pm
Bleatmop
Offroad Artist – I’m curious to know if you live in Alberta.
Also, many of the issues talked about in this post, specifically Oil-sands development, education policy, and many of the issues that can help get rid of patriarchy (things like labour laws and funding of some programs) are controlled by our provincial government. Thus, the dominate political culture in Alberta is definitely not offset by the rest of Canada’s tolerant liberalism. It is the very conservative “drop the progressive” PCs that are in power and the extremely far right Wildrose Alliance that will be deciding on these issues after next election.
That said, I’d also like this tolerant liberal majority you talk about to actually show up at the polls next federal election.
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November 17, 2010 at 8:06 pm
The Arbourist
I’m going to respond a little bit at a time Vern, its cold and my brain is slow. :/
(dealing with the precursors to crime and criminality – poverty, discrimination, and inequality… is a much more efficient and effective way to deal with crime in a society) How much time do you think is required to solve these issues, and what do you propose happens in the meantime?
Like most worthwhile things, I would propose that these measures would take a good deal of time to enact. The real question is how much more time and money would you like to spend on a system that does not work for the people it is trying to help? I’m on the edge of getting the “people need to responsible lecture, but I shall press on. If people do not have the tools to *act responsibly* in the first place, should we punish then for not following societies rules when they break them? Part of dealing with the precursors of criminality is giving people the necessary skills and abilities to make the right choice and lead a marginally acceptable life within society.
Poverty is a precursor to crime only when the person decides to use it as an excuse.
I see. So then, it again falls on the people who have been dealt the worst hands in life to do the most work, just for the chance to break even? To assign a generalized view of conservatives on this issue would be that they focus almost exclusively on the individual and not the society that surround them. Denying the conditions that shape how we see life and how we react and simply blaming people for not “bootstrapping” themselves into acceptable socioeconomic shape is akin to blaming the poor for being poor.
More to come tomorrow or on the weekend. :>
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November 18, 2010 at 12:25 pm
Vern R. Kaine
If people do not have the tools to *act responsibly* in the first place, should we punish then for not following societies rules when they break them?
The only thing you need to act responsibility is a brain. If someone is legitimately handicapped and lacks this mental capacity then of course, they should not be “punished”. Those who act like they are somehow handicapped (by government, society, racism, etc.) and yet aren’t, however, should.
I see. So then, it again falls on the people who have been dealt the worst hands in life to do the most work, just for the chance to break even?
??? It depends on what they see their life conditions as, how that matches up with their expectations, and what degree of control people believe they have to change either of those two things – if they in fact want to. There are homeless people who are happy. There are those who are born with every physical disadvantage who succeed at levels far beyond what most “physically-advantaged” people achieve. It’s your way of thinking, not mine, that does more to label these people as “losers”, or “downtrodden”, and the fact that those of us with less have to do more to get ahead is simply life, human nature, and in most cases, a necessary part of human growth.
[You seem to be] blaming the poor for being poor.
This speaks to my original point. Due probably to a lack of experience in working directly with the poor (or ever being poor yourself), you seem to lump everyone into the “it’s not their fault” category while trying to say that I’m lumping everyone into the “it’s all their own fault” category. Again (and again, and again!) I have never once done or said that.
Yes, I’d say conservatives tend to blame LESS the environment and MORE the individual, and I believe that’s appropriate. Otherwise, there’s no purpose for a brain. Your view seems to be the opposite, that it’s more the environment and less the people themselves. You may even be saying that it’s ALL about environment? (I can’t really tell, because you never seem to place any actual blame on an individual’s choices or manner of choice here unless it’s that of a single politician (such as Stephen Harper)). ;)
Regardless, I think we need to address both simultaneously – environment and individual choice – because both are factors, but again my concern is that the left’s view is that it promotes LESS responsibility on behalf of the individual at a time where we need more of it. My concern is that the positions here go so far left that it gives people excuses for their lives that these people have no right whatsoever to have.
And when I see posts such as this which label conservatives as (essentially) simplistic, ignorant, and uncaring, I once again kindly point out the hypocrisy of such an opinion. Sure, the far right is looney – it produces action without thinking that leads to unnecessary hardship and even death.
But consider that the far-left is no better – and produces the very same unnecessary hardship (people being “helpless” when they actually aren’t, and don’t have to be), and just as much wrongful or meaningless death (again, the case of Zachary Andrews is a shining example of this).
For people to sit here and act like they’re up high on some sort of ivory tower of humanity, or to look across this so-called intellectual divide with nothing but contempt and judgment is hypocrisy that I find absolutely shameful at best. If the world were left to be run by those on the far left, history has proven time and time again it would be no better. There’s much evidence, in fact, to show that it would be even worse (Specifically, the left’s justification for murderers going free who [shocker] happen to recommit).
So sit in judgment on those who oppose your views seemingly without “proof”, “critical thought”, or “statistical evidence” if you want to, however I challenge you to get down into the proof of the arguments from those you have so much contempt for, and see, hear, and experience it for yourselves. Spend actual time with criminals. Spend time with natives in northern Manitoba. Spend a week with the poor at a homeless shelter in Compton. Talk to people who have escaped their circumstances and beat the odds, and get a first-hand understanding of both why and how they did it.
Go beyond the headlines and surveys you guys so often use to substantiate and justify your intelligence and instead use your own eyes and ears IN THE ACTUAL ENVIRONMENT ITSELF as the basis for it. Only then, in my opinion, will I think you’ll have any right to stand “1000km away” or whatever distance you’ve deemed appropriate and offer any sort of judgmental glare.
Respectfully, I think you’ll find that the world is different when you’re actually in it.
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November 18, 2010 at 12:25 pm
Vern R. Kaine
Inserting a “my next reply will be a short one, honest!” guarantee here, Arb. :)
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November 19, 2010 at 12:10 pm
Bleatmop
In the light of the conversation between The Arbourist and Vern R. Kane that I’ve been reading here, I thought I’d contribute this:
http://theotherwesmoore.com/about-the-book/
I’m planning on picking the book up this weekend and give it a read.
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November 19, 2010 at 4:01 pm
Alan Scott
The Arbourist,
I have to say I hope you guys keep pumping out that Alberta crude. Since here in Obamaland, we are too stupid to drill for our own oil.
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November 20, 2010 at 9:18 am
The Arbourist
Thanks for the links Bleat, looks like I have another work to add to my reading pile. *sigh* :)
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November 20, 2010 at 9:36 am
Vern R. Kaine
I’ve heard about this book as well (or rather, the characters). Thanks for the links. Looking forward to reading it.
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November 20, 2010 at 11:24 am
The Arbourist
Third, the vehicle for your proposed solutions. More money and left-leaning thinking into public coffers only produces more poorly behaved children, juvenile delinquents, and parolees going free to recommit murders. If you’ve worked directly as or with any elementary teachers, prison employees, police officers, or social workers, you know this.
This is a baseless assumption. Societies that spend more on social programs and social justice have less incidence of the maladaptive behaviours you list. Societies that care for their people and provide more of their basic needs do comparatively better than those who do not. I would offer the murder rates per capita of a country with less social supports (US) versus a country with more social supports (Sweden) to back my claim.
If you’ve worked directly as or with any elementary teachers, prison employees, police officers, or social workers, you know this.
You know what I know? I know that equating your anecdotal evidence with reality leads to results that often favour your point of view. So let’s go from the stories I hear and experience as a teacher that works with troubled youth, their social workers, their parole officers, police and their parents. Many of the children I work with grew up going hungry to school (if they went to school) *every day* of their lives. You know what would have helped? A school breakfast/lunch program for all students (yes a program funded by the government that benefits others, dirty socialism at its worst) that would ensure that everyone had a full tummy so they could start the day out right and be able to focus on learning (or at least having one less cause for anxiety in their day) instead of the hunger pangs for the day.
You know what constitutes a good day for many of them? Going through a school day without hurting themselves or others around them. No academics, no tests, no homework, just reasonable human being behaviour is a victory for them and me, and when it happens let me tell you, we have a celebration. It’s a small incri-fucking-mental victory almost lost in a sea of destructive self and peer interactions, but we celebrate it because these children have not ever experienced a win, or a victory when it comes to dealing with school and life, the things we take for granted. Do I have enough time in the day to make sure each of them gets to feel like someone actually cares for them and is worried about them, of course I don’t and it eats me up inside because these are the children on the downward spiral who will be the next generation of offenders. Here I am doing what I can without enough support and resources, taking a frakking teaspoon to push back the ocean, and you have the audacity (and seemly get up on your particular tower) to say opine majestically like this:
I have not seen more money into the Alberta education system produce smarter or better-behaved children,…
We do the best with what we are given Vern, and it is not enough, let me assure you, but we try and that is all one can do.
I interact with social workers whose caseloads span the entire province who have precious little time for the kids they are entrusted with. Is that fair? Is that giving children who are most at need the best chance of success? Does it provide any basis for forming healthy relationships where once can begin to foster a sense of personal responsibility? I’m really frakkingly-hyper-intensively-interested on your hearing your solutions to this, because most conservative solutions that deal with high-risk youth often end with having them incarcerated for long periods of time. And we both know that prisons most certainly “fix” people so they can fit seamlessly back into society. So what is to be done?
Coming back to my anecdata; I hear daily the frustrations of the staff that work with the troubled youth in my district how that with more funding and supports we might be able to turn a few more of the borderline cases around before they actually do something horrible in the community. Oh and yes, I have taught murders and rapists, and I did the best that I could for them given the limited resources I had available to me. I go to bed at night wondering what else I can, or could have done, for the children that I work with. I wish I had more support to help these kids; they come from backgrounds that would grind most people to dust. I come to school everyday and boggle at the shit that these children have had to live through and can still keep it together and function, marginally, as human beings. It is a testament to the resiliency of children because some can still be helped with the marginal resources at my disposal. And then I hear ‘stuff’ like this:
More money and left-leaning thinking into public coffers only produces more poorly behaved children, juvenile delinquents, and parolees going free to recommit murders.
And it infuriates me because the resounding ignorance of blanket statements like this point to not only a world view based on privilege, but a selective view of facts and reality that not only actively marginalize entire classes of people, it blames them for the state that they are in. The absolutely best part is that I get criticized for possessing a distant “hands-off”, academic-ivory-tower view of issues and that for people ‘on the ground’ its really different. Bullshit.
My views are informed by what I deal with almost every day. Conservative ideology works great if you are marginally well off. But the self reliance, personal responsibility sham starts to wear really thin when exposed to the fact that unless people have a foot to stand on they can neither solely rely on themselves or their sense of personal responsibility to “fix” themselves and their life course. The people that do manage on their own are exceptions to the rule rather than the standard.
So, I think that intervening early with family supports and front-end programs that help people is a darn fine thing to do, because trying to help people after they are thoroughly ‘broken’ is a ineffective stop-gap measure that, in the end, hurts society more than if we would have dealt with the issues in the first place.
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November 20, 2010 at 1:57 pm
The Arbourist
Economic necessity will drive oil production Mr.Scott. When prices and demand become high enough, the drilling you speak of will commence.
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November 20, 2010 at 8:34 pm
Alan Scott
The Arbourist,
Since there can be delays of several years between when the price goes up and when the oil actually starts flowing, could you do me a big favor? Send your buddy President Obama a message and tell him to start issuing deep water drilling permits, like uh now! He doesn’t listen to anyone down here. You being a foreigner and a Progressive to boot, I figure he might listen to you .
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November 21, 2010 at 3:20 pm
Vern R. Kaine
“More money and left-leaning thinking into public coffers only produces more poorly behaved children, juvenile delinquents, and parolees going free to recommit murders.”
Stated the way I did, yes this is largely an emotional response, and you’re correct in pointing out that I’m not basing it on any data. Let me restate my point/argument in the context of the original reply:
We’re in a society that loves to blame everything else but itself. I argue that the problem isn’t the school system, it isn’t the jails, it isn’t the free lunch program. The problem, in my opinion, is parents who adopt a left-leaning ideology that absolves them of any ownership of their situation when that ownership is clearly their own. The problem is a socialist ideology that, seemingly out of fear of offending sensitivities, prefers to lump the abusers in with the needy so that those who the benefits are truly intended for only receive a fraction of them.
No matter what social program exists around somebody, the difference to me has always comes down to their individual choices. Everything that’s said here does zero to acknowledge that, best I can tell, and yet that is clearly at the core between those who improve their situation vs. those who don’t (note I’m excluding here those who CAN’T). What good, then, is throwing more money at systems which ignore the true basis of personal change? What good does it do, also, to automatically dismiss those who are critical of these systems’ inefficiency and in some cases, outright danger?
“You know what would have helped? A school breakfast/lunch program for all students (yes a program funded by the government that benefits others, dirty socialism at its worst)…
Arb, please. You’ve accused me (falsely) of calling all poor people lazy, now I’m supposedly arguing for children going hungry, save for some government program? You’re playing the classic liberal bleedheart card here for no reason. I said no such thing against school lunches or feeding kids, and you know that.
Btw, As a kid myself our family was making lunches for these kids when I was going to school in Alberta, so I do know what you speak of. My mother was a teacher, dealing with the coded kids you mention – kids going weeks without lunches, wearing the same clothes, no school supplies, etc.. (There’s currently a lice problem going through the school division, btw)
You continually try to paint me with the “anti-government/anti-social” brush, when I’ve stated many opinions to the contrary, such as regarding health care. Throw “school lunches” in there, now, too, but let’s get back to my point: a far left ideology lumps those who can’t afford food for their kids with those who, for a number of reasons, don’t care to. That same ideology keeps teachers underpaid and under-resourced, and supports a system that puts good teachers in the same pile as shitty teachers – again, ignoring/denying the responsibility or ability of the individual. It’s a system that’s almost entirely built upon unearned entitlement, and yet we wonder why kids have such a sense of unearned entitlement these days? Do you blame the right for this result?
If you’ll note, I’d also criticize a far-right view here, which in the case of school lunches would be likely, “make the parents pay for it”, and an argument against government waste. My position – government is the only way it can be guaranteed to a minimum standard. No, it wouldn’t be perfect, but so what – at least it’s there.
Overall, I support more of this approach when it comes to social spending: http://evidencebasedprograms.org/wordpress/
And to your comment about my “ivory tower”: I don’t need a study to tell me 1/2 the teachers at my mother’s school are useless. The other half of the teachers, the kids, and a number of the RESPONSIBLE parents are proof. Conversely, I also don’t need a study to tell me the good ones are underpaid and under-resourced. That’s not coming from some “ivory tower”, it’s coming from educated and objective observation at the ground level where I’m seeing more than just typing – much the same kind of observation that you can offer as a university prof.
Now, I’ve never been a social worker, but I’ve done everything possible to walk a mile in their shoes before being critical of that system. Same with education, same with military, same with law enforcement. With that, I do have criticisms however I’m the first to let a social worker, teacher, cop, or soldier correct me on them, or offer alternate positions to my views.
Conversely, I see a lot of people here act all anti-corporate when I haven’t seen anyone who has ever actually owned or run a legitimate business. Then, they criticize the right for being ignorant and unsympathetic/empathetic – that they’re ignorant, they don’t listen, they don’t read, etc.. Yet from where I stand, that’s exactly what everyone seems to do here.
p.s. an interesting article on prevention vs. punishment that echoes my own views.
http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1923144,00.html
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November 21, 2010 at 3:22 pm
Vern R. Kaine
I think Dennis Miller said it well during his stand-up routine last night:
“When we’ve actually run out of oil, THAT’S when we’ll have an alternative fuel.” (perhaps not a direct quote, but that was the gist of it).
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November 21, 2010 at 3:36 pm
Vern R. Kaine
“And we both know that prisons most certainly “fix” people so they can fit seamlessly back into society. So what is to be done?”
I don’t think that’s entirely certain. There’s people who prison scares straight, and others who come out more hardened and bitter. (link from another reply: http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1923144,00.html) What’s the right mix? I don’t know.
As a juvenile, I avoided JDC but my friends were kids who were in and out of there all the time. The ones who were in there a lot simply got used to it, which, I agree, made them think that’s the best they could do in life. Those of us who avoided it or were only in once, vowed never to be in there (again). Same with those I know in adult prison.
The thing is, it’s not the prison per se, it’s the other convicts. So as a poor answer to “what is to be done?”, I think a start is to keep minor criminals out of jail. I would propose a military boot camp for juveniles that builds discipline, self-respect, and confidence rather than removing it.
For white collar criminals, I’d throw them into the hardened criminal population. They won’t turn into tattooed gangbangers, and if anything, they’ll be constantly in fear of being beaten or raped by them. White collar jail is too much a country club.
As for the “career” criminals, depending on the severity of the crime, I’ve got a few “out there” ideas that I’ll save for another post. :)
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November 21, 2010 at 3:48 pm
Vern R. Kaine
Do I have enough time in the day to make sure each of them gets to feel like someone actually cares for them and is worried about them, of course I don’t and it eats me up inside because these are the children on the downward spiral who will be the next generation of offenders. Here I am doing what I can without enough support and resources, taking a frakking teaspoon to push back the ocean, and you have the audacity (and seemly get up on your particular tower) to say opine majestically like this:”
Not so much a tower, more of a soap box, I think. :)
First, you take my criticism as personal – it wasn’t intended that way. Second, I think you’re stating my point. “Do I have enough time in the day to make sure each of them gets to feel like someone actually cares for them and is worried about them?” Do I “Doing what I can without enough support and resources” Arb, who made this your job? What is (or is supposed to be) the parents’ role in this scenario? The system, in my opinion, is sitting there telling parents (present or absent) that “it’s not your fault, it’s not your responsibility.” The left (far left?) has fostered and encouraged that stance, don’t you think?
I don’t blame the kids, I blame (first) the parents. If there’s any sort of ivory tower I’m on, that’s it. Some parents don’t deserve kids, but on the left, saying that seems to be blasphemy.
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November 21, 2010 at 4:19 pm
Vern R. Kaine
I’m really frakkingly-hyper-intensively-interested on your hearing your solutions to this, because most conservative solutions that deal with high-risk youth often end with having them incarcerated for long periods of time.
I don’t have a blanket solution. As for conservative offers that I’ve seen/read about, they seem largely based upon scaring someone straight. I don’t disagree with that, but I don’t fully agree with it either. It’s like a company – sometimes the carrot works, sometimes the stick. It depends on the individual.
With that, I come back to my left vs. right position. The left proposes usually a top-down approach for many reasons, which I think creates as many problems as it tries to solve.
With all the PC crap we have going on right now, all kids get first place ribbons, and you can’t call a kid “bad” based on his behavior. How does that build self-esteem? Those teachers who truly have a gift in connecting with kids – the ones who kids remember and admire well into adulthood – why aren’t they rewarded, either financially or otherwise, for exceptional performance?
Why not make parents accountable for their kid’s grades (improvement first, maintenance second)? What about making parents accountable for their kid’s behavior? (Oh, right, because the PC system says that you can’t call a kid “bad”). How do we discourage unwanted pregnancies? How do we discourage “kids for cash” welfare abuse? How do punish a mother for drinking during pregnancy, or effectively prevent it?
Teachers and social workers get the shit end of the stick with all of that. Imagine a doctor, nurse, or shrink that had to spend 240 days a year with a patient? Yet teachers do. Social workers, same thing.
If I had to invent a solution, it would be directed at the leverage point which is the parent. Better parenting = less stress on the hospitals (ex: FAS), = less stress on teachers, = Less welfare, less crime, etc. There are a vast number of role models from every background and every economic or social situation which could serve as examples here to be modeled.
I would also support mandatory military service. Not necessarily gun-in-hand, could be logistics or peace corps type stuff. I know this would have smartened me up years before I finally did. Among other things, I think it gives us some sense of a higher authority.
Beyond that, I don’t know. We can only start with our own, and so many of us don’t even do that.
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November 21, 2010 at 5:07 pm
Vern R. Kaine
My views are informed by what I deal with almost every day.
I have a better understanding of that now. Thank you.
Conservative ideology works great if you are marginally well off. But the self reliance, personal responsibility sham starts to wear really thin when exposed to the fact that unless people have a foot to stand on they can neither solely rely on themselves or their sense of personal responsibility to “fix” themselves and their life course. The people that do manage on their own are exceptions to the rule rather than the standard.
If we’re referring to “marginally well off” and a “foot to stand on” as financial, I’d have to disagree, based on my experience. Corny as it sounds, I do believe it begins with a mindset first, and have seen numerous examples of people with less than zero getting ahead as proof. Not “positive thinking” necessarily, but even just a mindset that has even a shred of hope. I made the comment before that I believe the only thing people need to be self-reliant is a brain. I believe it’s true.
Odds can be heavily stacked against someone with no money, no car, a disability, their gas shut off, an empty stomach, etc. to be sure, but in every single case I know of where those things were overcome, the mindset was where change began, either way.
Now let me qualify that to where I agree with you: you argue that they can’t solely rely on themselves. I agree – the people I know who have lived in their cars, slept on beaches, in shelters, etc. and later have turned their lives around have all had high-quality people around them at some point (even if it was the voice of their parents, heroes, conscience, “inner voice”, etc.), not necessarily high quality government social systems. The opposite is true for those I know who stay in a rut – they always have low-quality people around them.
How do our social systems surround the downtrodden with good people? Government people themselves aren’t the most self-reliant (neither are the trust fund babies and high-society socialites who’ve never lifted a finger for their success and can’t tie their shoes, for that matter!) Good government people are too few, and don’t have the time resources, either. Of course the “good people” to begin with should be the parents, but I’ve beaten that drum enough.
Again, no real solution. Within our companies, I support more efforts towards person-to-person charity than just the token “donate $100”-type causes. The United Way and things like that are good, but I think they can be too “hands off” to have an impact – not on the recipient I mean, but rather, the donor. Sponsor a child, become a big brother/sister, that sort of thing where there’s an actual face of who you’re helping. Without kids of my own, it’s the next best thing short of full-on adoption.
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November 21, 2010 at 7:05 pm
The Arbourist
I tend to agree Vern, unfortunately, until something is actually depleted or becomes unfeasibly expensive we won’t switch. :/ Sounds like a good paper for an economist or social scientist. :>
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November 23, 2010 at 11:40 am
The Arbourist
It’s a busy week Vern, I have several replies formulating, but not the time to get them up. I managed a Wednesday off, so I’ll see what I can do. :)
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November 23, 2010 at 12:25 pm
Vern R. Kaine
It’s a busy week Vern, I have several replies formulating, but not the time to get them up. I managed a Wednesday off, so I’ll see what I can do. :)
Not sure if this is under the right thread, but just wanted to say, “No rush!” on the replies. I’d welcome some knee-jerk, emotional responses that don’t take days to think or write out – would make things feel more “equal”. haha
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November 27, 2010 at 10:10 am
The Arbourist
Odds can be heavily stacked against someone with no money, no car, a disability, their gas shut off, an empty stomach, etc. to be sure, but in every single case I know of where those things were overcome, the mindset was where change began, either way.
This does not work if you a child and cold, sick and hungry. You often accuse me of over intellectualizing my argumentation and not grounding it in firm empirical reality. In reality, poverty does give you the short end of the stick; developmental, cognitive and social delays cannot be changed by a particular mindset.
I read your caveat as well Vern and understand where you are coming from, it is ultimately up to each individual to get themselves going. I just argue that we need to provide more opportunities for that to happen. And heck yes, if we can do it face to face within our communities that would be great as well, and I am strong proponent of community based programs and activities.
What opposes this community based approach? The competitive atomizing nature of capitalist society, its hard to share community when work expectations are so very high that there is no time be in the community and get to know your neighbours. The wage stagnation for the middle and lower classes since the 70’s is testament to how much more common people have to work, just to make ends meet.
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November 27, 2010 at 10:22 am
The Arbourist
First, you take my criticism as personal – it wasn’t intended that way.
I know Vern, but sometimes being told what it is like in the trenches, when you’re actually in the trenches, makes one mad. And you succeeded :) But with a little time and space I can reformulate my answers and approach to a more appropriate level.
The system, in my opinion, is sitting there telling parents (present or absent) that “it’s not your fault, it’s not your responsibility.”
Broken parents raise broken children. The cycle needs to be broken somewhere, and telling people who cannot cope with life to get their responsible boots on and get “with” it is not a solution they are likely to embrace. I realize this is a simplification of your argument, but one cannot simply tell people to start living right and expect them to do it (reasonably) without supports and help in place for them. Human beings do not change overnight, habits and reactions that are formed over years take years to unlearn and modify. Hence my arguments for greater “front end” social supports to get people moving in the right direction as opposed to the negative trajectories they are currently on. In addition, the front end supports are much less expensive than incarceration and therefore would make for a more cost efficient, fiscally responsible state.
I don’t blame the kids, I blame (first) the parents. If there’s any sort of ivory tower I’m on, that’s it. Some parents don’t deserve kids, but on the left, saying that seems to be blasphemy.
I’m not sure what part of the left says that, but not the part that informs my decisions. Parenting is undervalued in society and many people do not seem to understand the demands or responsibilities of parenthood very well. That being said, the children we are raising now will be the leaders of our society in a couple of decades, should we not make the effort as a society to make sure they are raised in the best possible conditions?
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November 27, 2010 at 10:28 am
The Arbourist
As a juvenile, I avoided JDC but my friends were kids who were in and out of there all the time. The ones who were in there a lot simply got used to it, which, I agree, made them think that’s the best they could do in life. Those of us who avoided it or were only in once, vowed never to be in there (again). Same with those I know in adult prison.
I agree with you Vern, it all depends on the situation and the person. Flexibility in the criminal justice system to target offenders that would benefit from modified programming and social supports should be identified, while others require more traditional means of punishment.
My argument lies with the fact that you cannot punish someone into obedience, because once offenders leave their structured environment they most likely will revert back to their old habits.
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November 27, 2010 at 9:18 pm
Vern R. Kaine
I know Vern, but sometimes being told what it is like in the trenches, when you’re actually in the trenches, makes one mad. And you succeeded :) But with a little time and space I can reformulate my answers and approach to a more appropriate level.
That almost sounds like a suggestion? :) I re-read my one reply and realize there was more frustration and tone there than I originally intended. Apologies where necessary. As for appropriate, your choice whether to be or not, but I appreciate the responses and dialogue either way.
If I can go back to where this all started, it’s that I believe socialism is far too blunt an instrument for some things, and “pure” capitalism is far too fine for others. I also believe positions/ideologies that are based upon either come with a degree of ignorance that it seems we both find frustrating. Your post talked about it occurring on the right, whereas I find a similar level of ignorance occurs on the left which leaves people at a net zero.
My argument lies with the fact that you cannot punish someone into obedience, because once offenders leave their structured environment they most likely will revert back to their old habits.
That seems absolute? I was punished into obedience many times, and feared parental discipline far more than teacher or court discipline. It’s sad nowdays that “structure” only seems to occur in jail.
What opposes this community based approach? The competitive atomizing nature of capitalist society, its hard to share community when work expectations are so very high that there is no time be in the community and get to know your neighbours.
Or one’s kids! I happen to agree – it is atomizing. However, I love it. Better that than a system keeping me down. :)
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November 28, 2010 at 8:25 am
The Arbourist
That almost sounds like a suggestion? :) I re-read my one reply and realize there was more frustration and tone there than I originally intended.
I hear ya. Getting topics close to ideas/values we care about makes it hard sometimes to distance oneself from the less rational arguments for your position.
As for appropriate, your choice whether to be or not, but I appreciate the responses and dialogue either way.
And that would be the difference between you and many people who hold certain points of view that are calcified into their positions. I appreciate the debate and give and take as it necessarily forces introspection and evaluation of ones own points of view and motivations.
That seems absolute? I was punished into obedience many times, and feared parental discipline far more than teacher or court discipline.
A question though, did you learn the lesson, or did you learn to fear the authority that it emanated from? Within the structure of a secure loving family I am completely for parental discipline, and logical consequences. Here is the the issue though, what happens when kids get nothing but ‘consequences’? We habituate to what is around us and being the ‘problem child’ can become the role you play during childhood rather than a phase. What if you defend yourself with negative behaviour because it *works* for you. Contemplate the philosophical differences between these two statements: “Children want to do well, if they can.” and “Children do well if they want to.”. Short Ytube clip (4:00 min) on the difference and how that affects the method of dealing with children.
However, I love it. Better that than a system keeping me down. :)
The capitalist system keeps people down in a different way (see wage stagnation and the continued socialism of the rich), not to be all dour and what not, but I would lean toward a system that holds egalitarian principles in the same high regard as competitive ones. :>
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November 28, 2010 at 10:22 am
Vern R. Kaine
A question though, did you learn the lesson, or did you learn to fear the authority that it emanated from?
I didn’t learn any lesson at all, except a desire to avoid punishment. Fear kept me away from the wrong things and more towards the right things. Otherwise, I would have succumbed to peer pressure (another fear) every time. Thankfully, the fear was there long enough for me to finally clue in that I did actually have potential. Somewhere along the way I found some self-worth, and realized that people were trying to protect me from permanent mistakes, not drive my sense of self-worth even further down.
I agree about the child and the role vs. the phase of the problem child. Big believer in systems, that often the child is an indicator of a breakdown in the bigger system and not the problem themselves.
“Kids do well if they wanna” vs. “Kids do well if they can”. It’s a hard argument to separate in those terms. I watched the video, and was disagreeing right up until 3:28 when he said “something must be getting in the way”.
In the context of our discussion, does poverty get in the way? To me, financially – of course, but mentally – not on its own. It requires a decision (conscious or subconscious) that poverty is all one can ever have or can expect. It’s a belief that one’s self worth is equal to their circumstances. Maybe that belief gets reinforced by bad parents, by poor teachers, by the kid’s peer group, but to me it’s still a choice on some level.
Consider Liz Murray’s story.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2010/sep/26/liz-murray-bronx-harvard
To me, the “can” starts first with the knowledge that people always have a choice, and second that their choice can have an impact. I think often-times the social systems we have are too quick to label, group, and homogenize which takes both the recognition and power of that choice and the perception of its impact away. Look at good teachers – how many of them feel empowered to go outside the norm to reach their kids, but then give up because they believe the system that they’re in will either oppose it, abort it, or negate it? My mother is a retiring teacher and is refusing to have any of her grandchildren go through “regular” public school for those reasons – it doesn’t teach kids choice or responsibility, and it removes a teacher’s choice and yet adds on to their “responsibility”. I don’t think more money will help there, and that only a parental “wake up call” will.
The capitalist system keeps people down in a different way (see wage stagnation and the continued socialism of the rich)
Companies do a great job of convincing people they are helpless without them, just as politicians do. Some companies even make politicians feel they are helpless, but all of this is fueled by individual greed, not corporate greed.
Keep in mind, too, that capital isn’t just financial. There is also emotional capital – the emotions that get triggered and cause people to get off their wallets. The reality is most adults have little to no emotional maturity – they aren’t in control of their emotions in some cases, and are addicted to certain emotions in others. They try to act all rational, but it’s their emotions that are truly in the driver’s seat. Unless either a) a significant emotional event occurs which causes a breakthrough, or b) someone is in an environment where their emotional maturity can develop, people get screwed no matter what system they happen to be living under – socialist, capitalist, or otherwise.
What you’re talking about with wage stagnation fits into this. If people wanted to do better, could they? Perhaps. If they could do better, would they? For the most part, honestly, I don’t think so. Only a select few. The rest trade growth for security, which is why many in the end feel unfulfilled and are looking for either a temporary fix (drugs, alcohol, “toys”, shopping, eating, cigarettes, TV, etc.) or a more permanent one, like blaming government, big business, the Chinese, illness, or whatever in order to get a sense of significance.
I believe CEO salaries have gone to ridiculous levels, but also that some of the wage stagnation data may be incomplete or misleading (ex: did these people take employee stock options in lieu of wage increases?) Nonetheless, my overall belief is that wage stagnation occurred largely for the reason that people traded growth for security, and had assumed that their investments rather than their salaries would be what ultimately took care of them. Instead of investing in a better education or more valuable set of skills, most chose instead to invest in a bigger house and nicer clothes. Those who took more risks (legally and ethically) through the only system that allows and rewards them for doing so (capitalism) should not be punished for that.
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