Working on holidays on campus is always a rewarding and edifying experience. I get to meet the upcoming best and brightest students that our fair institution produces for Alberta. However, the building I work at is closed today, as it is a long weekend holiday.
“But how Arbourist, are people getting into a locked building?” my inquisitive audience asks.
Good question padawan, I mostly blame the radio station that also shares this building as they have staff that is going in and out all the time. No big deal. However, the front doors were recently renovated and I think that whomever did the measuring did not have their morning coffee because they stop and stick just short of the locking mechanism.
Consistently.
I assume this is where the Grand Axis of the Universe managed to gain entry to my fair building. After using the facilities he and his partner were summarily greeted by yours truly and asked to kindly leave, as it was a holiday and the building was closed.
I swear, it was like I was in my dodge-ball days again, twisting and turning but now only verbally.
“Where am I supposed to study?”
“I have a study group to attend and I need a space to do so!”
“I pay for the operation of this building, why can’t I use it?”
“Is there anyway to withdraw my student union fees? I need to use the building and clearly I’m not being allowed.”
Now gentle reader, I have some time behind me in the service industry (not to mention special education), and dealing with assholes is a useful skill one acquires over the years. The important thing is to empathize, or at least appear to empathize with the AIQ’s (asshole in question) concerns, then offer useful alternatives, but maintain the message you need to get across, namely you my dear dear AIQ need to GTFO out of my building, post haste. The AIQ’s companion had obviously been down this road before, and she mouthed her apologies and resignedly shrugged as we exchanged glances. She smiled as I arched my eyebrow and rolled my eyes at AIQ’s entitlement fail.
They left, and I had to just stand for awhile and process the twerpitude that had just been performed for my benefit. It was inspiring to share the magnitude of the naive cluelessness of our dear AIQ. He genuinely felt wronged by the University for having the audacity to close the building on holiday weekend disrupting his study plans.
Boo-frakking-hoo.
AIQ is under the false assumption that the powers that be give a rats ass about his bullshite undergraduate work and that anything he produces during his undergrad counts for anything meaningful. You just do not understand how balls to bones sincere AIQ was, this was near life and death. The sheer magnitude of his whingeing set AIQ in a class all by himself (I hope). Stern letters, at the very least, would be written!
It was like the Ivy Tower educated snob stereotype anti-intellectuals like to paint came to life and manifested all the bullshite priggish entitlement crap that makes the average person cranky.
I do like to think of myself as a intellectual (of sorts), and therefore I offer an apology for AIQ’s behaviour as I now can understand the need to throttle people who actually act like this.




7 comments
August 2, 2010 at 3:28 pm
Alan Scott
The Arbourist,
If I may be so bold to ask. What do you do that you are working a holiday weekend when every one else is not there ?
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August 2, 2010 at 4:00 pm
The Arbourist
Just being a warm body today and minding the building. :) Nothing particularly glorious or inspiring. Quite low-key actually.
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August 2, 2010 at 9:35 pm
Alan Scott
The Arbourist,
A modest liberal, very rare. Very hard to deal with .
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August 3, 2010 at 11:49 am
Alan Scott
The Arbourist,
I do like to attack your ideas and you for having them . Since you gave me no ego to go after, I reread your original post . Your out right arrogance is just too wonderful not to slap you down for.
” AIQ is under the false assumption that the powers that be give a rats ass about his bullshite undergraduate work and that anything he produces during his undergrad counts for anything meaningful. You just do not understand how balls to bones sincere AIQ was, this was near life and death. The sheer magnitude of his whingeing set AIQ in a class all by himself (I hope). Stern letters, at the very least, would be written! ”
I can only attribute your attitude to your anti capitalist entitled education. Rules are rules and you do not set them. I do not criticize you for enforcing them . It is your piss poor attitude toward your customers that galls me.
I only know about colleges that I’ve done business with, but other than the Government and rich donors don’t undergraduates provide the bulk of your Employers’ business and funding ?
In the private companies I have worked for we do not always love the types of people we serve, but we kiss their butts to keep them as customers. Our jobs depend on it . I guess that is the big difference between the private sector and academics who do not fear for their jobs . We take care of our customers .
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August 3, 2010 at 1:41 pm
The Arbourist
It is your piss poor attitude toward your customers that galls me.
LOL… Alan, this is post in the underside of the iceberg you do not see. I am quite civil when it comes to dealing with cantankerous people and was unfailingly polite to this particular asshat, I just thought I would share/debrief the, in my estimation, humourous aftermath with my small but dedicated following here at DWR.
I only know about colleges that I’ve done business with, but other than the Government and rich donors don’t undergraduates provide the bulk of your Employers’ business and funding ?
A good portion of the University’s funds come through undergraduates, however more comes from me as a taxpayer since we subsidize the cost of University education. I still take courses, pay tuition and pay taxes that subsidize the others that attend. In essence I am a stakeholder in the University and I have every right to opine about naive entitled individuals. :)
I guess that is the big difference between the private sector and academics who do not fear for their jobs .
Careful, Alan your anti-intellectual bent is showing. :)
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August 6, 2010 at 6:27 pm
Alan Scott
The Arbourist,
” Careful, Alan your anti-intellectual bent is showing. ”
I’ve been on both sides of that joke. When I worked in a smoke stack industry with much older guys, my Associate Degree made me the butt of many remarks. ” Hey College boy, you don’t know nothing”. Considering that I never went to a real college and only a technical school I was still an egg head to them .
Your low opinion of undergrads is mirrored by some graduate students I’ve met. Like they were never undergrads. I guess I do not like older people anywhere having a superior attitude to younger folks coming into an institution.
” In essence I am a stakeholder in the University and I have every right to opine about naive entitled individuals. :) ”
Well as the father of two college students, actually one is finished now, for what I send to the college ‘I’ feel entitled to have a couple of buildings named after me or at least let my kid have the use of them. :)
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August 7, 2010 at 11:23 am
The Arbourist
Alan Scott said: Your low opinion of undergrads is mirrored by some graduate students I’ve met. Like they were never undergrads.
This is just one instance of a particularly obnoxious one. I think you might be hasty in assuming I’m generalizing about *all* undergrads.
I guess I do not like older people anywhere having a superior attitude to younger folks coming into an institution.
The attitude in question usually is not very helpful. It is a feature of the world of academia and the world or work, a feature that should be minimized if possible.
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