Building communities to protect women via technology, sounds okay to me. Anyhow, the Circle of 6 app is meant to give people, with expensive first world technology, some options. Here is the press blurb from the site.
“With Circle of 6 you have a new way to connect with your most trusted friends – to stay
close, stay safe and prevent violence before it happens!
It’s the mobile way to look out for your friends – on campus or when you’re out for the night.
Circle of 6 lets you choose six trusted friends to add to your circle. If you get into an uncomfortable
or risky situation, use Circle of 6 to automatically send your circle a pre-programmed SMS alert
message, with your exact location. It’s quick. It’s discreet. Two taps on your iPhone is all it takes.
Here’s how it works:
• You’re out late and you lose track of your friends.
Use Circle of 6 to send your circle a “come and get me” message – with a map using GPS to
show your precise location.
• You’re on a date that starts to get uncomfortable. You need a polite way to excuse yourself.
Use Circle of 6 to alert your circle to call you and interrupt the situation.
• You’re seeing someone new, but you have some doubts about how things are going.
Use Circle of 6 to access a wealth of online information about healthy relationships.
• In critical situations, use Circle of 6 to call two pre-programmed national hotlines or a local
emergency number of your choice.
Circle of 6 is more than a safety application; it’s a community and a state of mind. It fosters the
formation of groups based on trust, and it connects users with organizations who have made
violence prevention their mission. We hope that the app becomes a vehicle for a social movement
that champions safe and healthy relationships.
The app for dudes is so much simpler – it just brings up this handy poster for quick viewing
![rcs[topten]pcarda6fin2reverse](https://deadwildroses.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/rcstoptenpcarda6fin2reverse.jpg?w=490&h=345)


5 comments
December 12, 2012 at 9:10 am
Rob H.
See.. This is the thing. I’m reading your blog, and I’m actually favorably disposed to this App.. And the inherent message that goes with it.
And then you go and jump to the oh so typical polarization gambit. That “dudes” need an app to tell them not to rape girls on dates.
If you hate men, I guess that’s fine, but for me, I happen to believe than genders don’t define the person. Call me a heretic.
..on second consideration, if your point of view is colored by personal experience, I guess I understand, but, again, would hope you understand that there are men who don’t hate or wish to hurt women.
Best wishes.
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December 12, 2012 at 9:21 am
The Arbourist
@Rob H
You mean the one where men rape women? Like often? One in four/one in five-ish? This is not a ploy to polarize anything.
How does rape prevention tips for men = hate for men? I’m curious as to how that calculus plays out?
One of the ways society defines people is through the societal construction of gender. Gender doesn’t work to well for women, so I’m glad you’re against using it.
Not all men are rapists, not all men hurt women. Some men are, and some men do hurt women therefore the tips would be aimed at them as opposed to you.
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December 12, 2012 at 10:06 am
syrbal
I don’t hate men, I hate rapists. And if men need to be told precisely what comprises “rape”….because, honestly, our culture makes out like half of those issues that routinely happen are just ‘rough romance’ as one “dude” I knew termed it, well, that is because men themselves do not come out vocally against rape.
I know many men who would never rape, but hearing OF a rape, they get a skeptical look on their face automatically. If “good” men can so easily not believe rape actually happens; who do women turn to aside from each other for defense?
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December 12, 2012 at 10:30 pm
bj
oh man, Rob H. sounds like an MRA!
waiting for him to pull out the statistics ‘proving’ that women are the worst abusers, the worst rapists, that women force men to go off to war and die for them, cuz ‘bitches’ are lazy…
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December 13, 2012 at 5:02 am
slendermeans
Yes, what about this – challenging victim-blaming and rape normalisation – is hating men? That old trope is not becoming any more acceptable.
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