“It is because society tells us that women are objects, not subjects, that when society is presented with a case of male violence or sexual abuse, everyone looks at it from his point of view: “Oh, he must have been provoked to have done that,” “He was a nice man who just snapped,” “He must have been confused by her signals,” “Maybe he’s been falsely accused, how terrible to have to go to jail for that.” With every victim-blaming, rape / violence apologist comment, society reveals through whose eyes it looks, and the answer is invariably the man’s. It is because society tells us that women are objects, not subjects, that even good men, when speaking out against violence against women, tell other men to imagine her as “somebody’s wife, somebody’s mother, somebody’s daughter, or somebody’s sister,” it never occurring to them that maybe, just maybe, a woman is also “somebody”.
It is frightening to consider just how deeply entrenched objectification of women really goes. We must certainly combat sexual objectification, but the battle will not end there. Women are objectified in more profound ways than we realise, and we must tear down every entwined shred of the patriarchy, in order to achieve our modest goal of being recognized and treated as human beings.
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— Source: The Objectification of Women – It Goes Much Further Than Sexy Pictures




4 comments
July 27, 2013 at 6:20 am
john zande
“objects, not subjects….” That’s a great and true turn of words.
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July 27, 2013 at 3:53 pm
syrbal
I recently watched the first season of a BBC show called “The Fall”….the lead actress hits on a fellow police office for a one night stand. Later, when she meets criticism for this she relates in just this manner, saying, “Man fucks woman. Man is subject, woman is object. But woman fucks man, woman is subject….you have a problem with that, don’t you?”
Target acquired and NAILED.
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July 28, 2013 at 9:36 am
The Arbourist
@Srybal
Sounds like a good show. :)
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July 28, 2013 at 9:37 am
syrbal
Definite possibilities!
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