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femaleassassinSeems like we have a bit of feminist  theme going on here this week – quelle suprise!  Harassment and how women and men are taught to exist in society.   If we can edumacate a few dudes about the toxic patriarchal soup we all swim in the world will be a better place.

“A male friend of mine that develops AAA games told me, “When a woman criticizes me, it goes to a different part of my brain than when a man on my team does. I get defensive really quickly. I’m trying to get better about it.” I don’t think his is a unique experience.

We live in a society that’s sexist in ways it doesn’t understand. One of the consequences is that men are extremely sensitive to being criticized by women. I think it threatens them in a very primal way, and male privilege makes them feel free to lash out.

This is why women are socialized to carefully dance around these issues, disagreeing with men in an extremely gentle manner. Not because women are nicer creatures than men. But because our very survival can depend on it.”

Sooooo… experiences are different for women in the game industry who would of thunk?  Might it be because women and men are socialized differently and are taught to respond differently to situations?  Might one set of strategies be beholden to the other, thus reinforcing the disparity?  Food for thought –

 

The highly quotable Margaret Atwood clarifies the idea:

“Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them.”

[Source:Polygon]

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