Well the grinding millstone of female misery that is Patriarchy claimed another victim as the CBC reports:
“Qandeel Baloch, a social media star whose exploits divided opinion in conservative Pakistan, was strangled, allegedly by her brother, in what appears to be a so-called “honour killing,” police and her family said on Saturday.
Baloch’s racy social media photos challenged social norms in Pakistan, a deeply traditional Muslim country where women are often repressed by their family or the community. Her killing shocked the South Asian country.
Baloch received multiple death threats and suffered frequent misogynist abuse, but continued posting provocative pictures and videos.”

Woo – racy stuff her going here. Not by Western standards, but enough to get her murdered by her brother in Pakistan.
Yeah. This happened.
“Baloch’s body was discovered on Saturday and her father Muhammad Azeem told the police that his son Waseem had strangled her, Ghazanfar said.
“Apparently, it is an honour killing, but further investigations will reveal the real motives behind this murder,” Ghazanfar said.
“Honour killings” are normally murders committed because of patriarchal concepts of honour and shame. They’re considered gender-based crimes, since girls and women are usually the victims.”
Let’s break down this Honour Killing malarky.
- Conservative Dude gets angry because she isn’t following the rules that make her a virtual slave.
- Dude cajoles and threatens woman, to no effect.
C. To preserve the families honour (read male strictures to keep females subservient) Dude kills her.
That, ladies and gentlemen is some pretty fucked up shit. This is the same patriarchal overlay that women face the world over. In places like Pakistan though, ‘uppity’ women are murdered by men for daring to demand full human being status.
“Oh but Arbourist,” my liberal dude commenters say, “That is a cultural practice and it certainly can’t happen here!”
Liberal friends – the Feminists organized and demanded that domestic violence be recognized and dealt with legally – beating your wife till the late 60’s and was pretty much swept under the rug. It is 2016 and Women continue to struggle against male violence in marriage to this day with societal norms that silence them, police that do not listen, and a legal/court system that is rigged against them.
When one of the pillars of your society is the Patriarchy – these sorts of horrible behaviours (honour killing, domestic violence, rape et cetera) are the implicit norm.
So take heed and listen to women when they say that society is still in need of serious reform, because men (and dudes) just because it works for you, doesn’t mean it works for women.




12 comments
July 20, 2016 at 6:04 am
roughseasinthemed
Marital rape wasn’t criminalised in England until 1991. A mere 25 years ago. In fact I’ve been married longer than that.
We. (Meaning women). Have. A. Very. Long. Way. To. Go.
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July 20, 2016 at 7:26 am
robert browning
Serious reform is indeed needed to combat this horrible shit that happens everywhere. We (men and women) need more awareness- raised to the level of “seriously concerned”. Could the fastest track be to get equal numbers of women within the judicial systems?
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July 20, 2016 at 7:36 am
makagutu
It is strange that family honour can be maintained by killing but abused by dress. Strange things my friends, very strange
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July 20, 2016 at 11:03 am
The Arbourist
@RSitM
Sadly, facts like you mentioned, are not part of the history curriculum. History is carefully scrubbed of these details to make forming a feminist mass consciousness that much more difficult.
Not in my classroom of course, but… as you said the long march toward being regarded as fully human is still very much a feature of womanhood. :(
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July 20, 2016 at 11:05 am
The Arbourist
@makagutu
Almost like some arbitrary rules were set up by one class of people in dominated and immiserate another…
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July 20, 2016 at 11:06 am
The Arbourist
@robert browning
Getting more equal representation would be a great start I do agree.
Overthrowing the set of norms that make this sort shit possible would be better.
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July 20, 2016 at 11:08 am
makagutu
I have no words for that type of madness
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July 20, 2016 at 2:10 pm
Laura Cereta
Thank you, thank you for pointing out that sexism at its very worst–death–is still alive and well in this world…and it still exist to a great extent in this country. Forget men, as many–too many–women will not even face the reality of our patriarchal society and how it effects them in every area of their lives. Wonderful piece. I’ve put it in my Buffer to go out as a tweet later today:)
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July 20, 2016 at 3:29 pm
The Arbourist
@Laura Cereta
Thanks. I wish it was a more hopeful topic, but when it comes to the subjugation of women, there is little cheer to be had. :/
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July 20, 2016 at 4:29 pm
robert browning
I’m with you on this aspect: “… as many–too many–women will not even face(it)…”. People learn how to survive at an early age so consciousness change has to begin right away with child rearing. Sadly that looks like a 2 or 3 hundred year process for change ( see: US civil war/ racism level 150 years later). It may be taboo, radical and/or simply stupid but to speed things along why couldn’t women use their sexual power over men to do the right thing in targeted situations( judges in rape trials, lawmakers re legislation)? Enlisting the pertinent women to the cause at the proper time may prove too difficult. Comedian Wanda Sykes, after visiting a strip bar on a dare, was astounded because, ” men pay good money just to look at it”
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July 20, 2016 at 8:22 pm
Laura Cereta
The funny thing is: most dancers HATE men, ridicule them for their “stupidity,” and are often gay or bisexual. They aren’t even interested in men sexually.
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July 20, 2016 at 8:25 pm
Laura Cereta
Understand your feelings of frustration completely. I’m going to quote Amy Siskind here; when ask why keep fighting, she said merely, “because we fucking have to fight.” There’s really no profound answer here. We hack at patriarchy anyway, despite what we see every day. Because. Somebody has to.
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