Recently on John Zande’s blog I had the opportunity to participate obliquely in a conversation with a religious believer. David, from all appearances, clutches his religious ideals tightly and furtively resists all attempts of being reasoned with and of course, reasoned at.
As David rambled on it became clear that he just was not getting it. My attempt to clarify the argument for David went like this:
“David: You immediately dismiss anything supernatural which means you aren’t interested in truth.
JZ: Again, do you accept that Dionysus turned water into wine?
David: No, as I have already stated, but once again that is a misdirection of what we are actually discussing.
A point that could be taken here is that David, you claim not to believe in the magic that Dionysus allegedly performed. Here, you are actually in agreement with the atheistic proposition that people with magical powers don’t exist.
The next step though is applying the logical extension of the argument – that people with magical powers don’t exist – to your claims.
Which leads to this:
Why believe in christian magic, but not Greek magic?
You are being hypocritical when you say the other people’s magic doesn’t exist, but “clearly” your particular magic does.”
David didn’t reply. How could he without resorting to circular reasoning of one flavour or another? JZ and other people followed David back to his own electronic squirrelly-lair of a blog and were promptly banned while attempting to reason through pronouncements similar to the mongrel-droppings he left on JZ’s blog.
This post seems like it is all about David, but really what I want to talk about is his behaviour in the face of simple arguments that obviously call his system of beliefs into question. Clearly, having your most cherished beliefs called into question provokes a defensive reaction – I can relate to that when I peer outside of my carefully curated collection of blogs that I follow with regards to my views on socialism (gasp) and feminism (double gasp).
Espousing views on the benefits of social democratic rule and the quaint(?) idea that women are people too invokes a bevy of negative responses, jadedly cynical ‘skepticism’, and plain old vanilla rejection of my arguments/ideas. Nothing (sadly) new about this state of affairs.
It is tiring having to introduce dudes (especially ‘liberal’ dudes) to the basic arguments of feminist theory and critique – especially when they exhibit the same sort of stonewall-ish reactions that David does to new information that challenges their world view (Feminism isn’t about hating men?? Unpossible!). When a valid counterpoint is made though I try to adapt to the new knowledge and rework my positions to accommodate this new more correct version of reality or at least acknowledge the validity of the point (I’m not always successful, my biases run true and deep.). I realize that I am not an authority on any particular topic and thus my arguments are not immutably true by default; and thus when it comes to arguing I try to stick to arguments that can be reasonably supported with facts.
Being aware of my fallibility affects how I argue and how I perceive the arguments of others. I don’t see a lot of this sort of introspection when it comes to those, like David, who espouse and attempt to defend religious belief. To have a zone in my argumentation where I’m automatically correct because “GOD” – seems like a huge red flag when comes to one’s epistemology and world-view.
I’ve had the benefit of not being inculcated with religious tomfoolery – but at the same time I think I lack understanding of what it is like to be a true believer and how one goes about cracking that particular sort of nut. How does one approach people whose first instinct is to clutch their tendentious ideas and then tenaciously defend said ideals with a streak of intransigence tempered with ignorance, that would make most people just throw up their hands?
We’ve all been there and seems to me that the only answer is time. Either they are ready to listen or the are really not ready to listen. Not following this prescription just wastes everyone’s time.




6 comments
April 19, 2015 at 6:28 am
tildeb
I have found that doubt is the seed being planted in people like David by effort of those like JZ in regards to religion and you in regards to feminism. That’s a vital first step in breaking down false certainties, glimpsing for perhaps the first time the shadow of bias and discrimination in one’s own views only by someone else shifting the spotlight, so to speak, so that we can begin to grasp where those shadows of the mind originate. It’s not a waste of time at all but more of an essential service that eventually leads the closed mind towards a willingness to listen and, more importantly, actually want to understand.
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April 19, 2015 at 8:28 am
john zande
There are streets of tiny little offices in Vienna filled with quietly-spoken professional men and women who would love to sit down with David :) And you’re absolutely correct to focus on that moment of pure madness regarding magic performed by one is true, but magic performed by another is not. My eyebrows leapt off my forehead after seeing that! Evidently, what is going on here, and you nailed it, is defence… a cognitive mechanism which gets ignited when precious beliefs are shown to be nonsense. At a fundamental level, what we’re really touching on here is the person’s “identity,” their sense of self, and that is what is being protected. I can understand such reactions, i can even sympathise with them, but i do wonder what it must be like for people like David when they go to bed at night, knowing (they must know) that they are being highly disingenuous.
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April 19, 2015 at 9:14 am
robert browning
Tilde says it well. Motives for an attitude or point of view can have similar descriptions in unrelated topics. Feminism is an education/ awareness task- sure to meet resistance from society’s comfort level w stereotypes while religious beliefs are answers, some say crutches, to the unknown and provide comfort from that fear and will be defended in spite of rational information; good luck talking to them though if they, religies, are even talking then they may be on their way to accepting new info. Motives for resisting fem. can be similar but planting awareness seems effective, especially one on one, in time. Maybe I’m a bit naive.
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April 19, 2015 at 6:45 pm
bleatmop
Arb – Were you looking for an actual analysis of why the conversation did not penetrate into David’s belief system? As a former true believer I think I could offer some insight (though not necessarily David’s insight), but if this is just a post about piling on on David then I’d really rather not.
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April 19, 2015 at 8:54 pm
The Arbourist
@bleatmop
I was actually. I can only peer in from the edges when it comes to people ensconced in their respective faiths. Piling on is so yesterday.
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April 20, 2015 at 7:43 am
Steve Ruis
I feel sorry for David. Talk about being caught between a rock and a hard place. Many such encounters involve people who have chosen to believe in things that are unbelievable but who then try to use reason to explain their “faith.” This is bringing a knife to a gun fight. Rather David should have answered that “God may have been trying to reach the spirit of a Priest of Dionysus and done miracles through him that were wrongly credited to the false god, I have no way of knowing.” This is the “god works in mysterious ways” defense with the use of a little imagination.
I am moving over to challenging their faith based upon their beliefs and not reason or facts, etc. because backing people like David into a corner merely creates bad feelings (and in the past I have relished creating those bad feelings … which I justified because “those people” lied to me!).
A good starting point is that Christianity seems to be a religions based upon a god creating the human race in order to have beings love and worship him. Boiled down Christianity instructs us to (a) love God and (b) love others as you would love yourself. Part B seems like a measure to protect the flock. If we were to fight and kill one another, then the total number of god lovers could diminish, so like Siamese Fighting Fish we are separated in some way, lest we fight and God’s stock be damaged.
So, we are left with only the principle to love God. Yahweh must be one sick puppy to create millions of people just to worship Him. And it does explain why He “gave” us free will. Otherwise He would have created us incapable of not worshiping us and, well, where’s the fun or value in that?
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