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47 comments
September 20, 2012 at 12:34 pm
bleatmop
Nice comic! Where did you find it? It’s all very reminiscent of the Rebecca Watson situation. I mean, how dare she apply skeptical thinking to something that challenges the white male privilege out there.
As tragic as the situation has been, there has been one upside to it for me. Those who have readily self identified (whether they know it or not) as racists or sexist bigots, and their apologists, have made it easy for me to stop unsubscribe from their channels or blogs. I mean, normally I would have to watch these people until they showed their colors naturally. Having them come down on the side of hatred has made it easy for me to filter them out and find actual progressive voices to read/watch/listen to.
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September 20, 2012 at 3:23 pm
The Arbourist
I stole the comic from Pharyngula. :) I agree with you bleat, not associating with the sexists, bigots and racists is nice. :)
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September 20, 2012 at 11:21 pm
slqblindman
Meanwhile, in the Atheism+ crowd:
Do you think we can do something about discrimination against men as well?
Why are you derailing?
Don’t be such a douchebag, you misogynist!
You’re banned!
So much for critical thinking….
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September 21, 2012 at 11:07 am
The Arbourist
You sound kinda bitter SBM, and I’m not sure why. Atheism+ membership is voluntary. There is no stricture saying this particular subset of atheist thought is better than others. What it does acknowledge is real, valid, empirically based social justice views and works to promote them.
Statements like the quoted above are likely to get met with some disapprobation because they often indicate a key knowledge deficit in basic nomenclature/substance of what taking a stand for social justice is. Discrimination of men does happen and it is worthy of discussion, however if the discussion space has been centered on the systemic problem of patriarchal oppression and privilege, coming in and saying “what about the menz?” is the wrong statement at the wrong time.
It is very difficult to discuss the oppressed classes(women, PoC, homosexual) points of view when the dominant (white men, male, hetrosexual) narrative already has built in rhetorical features that by default are minimizing, silencing and castigating toward minority narratives. (Relate this to discussing non belief with the religions, it is very frustrating because of all the defenses they have built into their default worldview) Not being aware of this feature of cultural discourse *is* derailing because you are espousing the narrative of the dominant class which exists to keep discourse and people where they are – thus “what about the menz” comments are looked on rather poorly in social justice/feminist circles.
So in the example you provided the dig you ended with would, properly, be at yourself because the onus is on you to educate yourself about privilege, patriarchy and racism.
Thus, after doing the homework (or not), then you can decide whether to grace Atheism+ with your presence or not, as mentioned earlier, membership is voluntary and is based on the idea that social justice is a key part to making Atheism work in society. People who believe that this is important will be in A+, if you don’t think that social justice issues are important, then don’t join.
It is that easy.
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September 21, 2012 at 9:41 pm
slqblindman
“There is no stricture saying this particular subset of atheist thought is better than others. ”
Dozens, if not hundreds, of examples on the internet demonstrate that the founding members of A+ think quite the opposite. Educate yourself.
“What it does acknowledge is real, valid, empirically based social justice views and works to promote them. ”
Really? Because when I’ve presented real, valid, empirically based social justice issues pertaining to men, the response is unfailingly dismissive.
“If the discussion space has been centered on the systemic problem of patriarchal oppression and privilege, coming in and saying ‘what about the menz?’ is the wrong statement at the wrong time.”
No. When the “discussion space” is continually centered on “patriarchal oppression” and “privilege”, and denies any existing female privilege, then it is absolutely time to step in with some facts to counter feminist dogma and mythology.
I’m very well educated, thank you, on civil rights issues pertaining to both men and women, gays and straights. I suggest YOU step outside your doctrinal feminism and broaden your own knowledge. Perhaps after you learn something about men’s issues you’ll be able to explain to me how A+ can claim to address social justice issues while ignoring and dismissing 50% of the worlds population.
If A+ truly was concerned with egalitarian social issues, I and many others would join. But as long as it is merely feminism by another name, then I’ll oppose it as I do all bigotry.
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September 22, 2012 at 8:49 am
The Arbourist
And they are forcing you to partake in their brand of Atheism how? Oh cupcake, this is going to be all about you and your issues isn’t it.
You know how silly christians in the US sound when they say they are being persecuted by angry atheists? This is where you are now. Because if you can’t get the time of day for men’s issues in this one corner of the internet you are being oppressed.
The internets are far and wide friend and in most of those spaces male-centric thoughts and concerns dominate. It might be wise to go to those venues so your concerns can get a proper airing.
Ah, well. This is a good tell that A+ isn’t for you. Social justice and feminism are key parts of A+, if you’re not okay with those ideas you definitely shouldn’t join, especially when you’re attempting to counter feminist dogma and mythology.
Actually you’re not if you’re arguing about the existence of “female privilege” (hint: its like arguing about black privilege or reverse racism which makes you look decidedly ignorant).
*lolsob* forever. No, cupcake that is not how it works. The A+ is about correcting the imbalance and moving toward equality, the playing field is not even now, far from it. But let’s not go further that than because explaining social justice and feminism to you isn’t my job (I only do that for every second dude I talk with on the net, and you’re not it, sorry).
Let’s just say that I highly doubt that you’ve applied *any* of the formidable critical thinking skills you highly value about yourself to this topic. What you’ve *shown* me is an uneducated, biased and thoroughly uncharitable set of arguments against the social justice/feminist aspects of A+. Kinda like how creationists argue with atheists – the parallels are fascinating.
So, when you have some arguments that stand up to the best and most powerful versions of what you are arguing against (you know how well-educated people argue) please come back and we can discuss them; because right now we’re at the “angry-dude who doesn’t get it” whinging phase and it most tiresome.
It must be rough living in the persecuted majority. Campaign as vigourously as you’d like against what you perceive as “feminist bigotry”(see reverse-racism), but you’ll find no purchase here (especially in the baseless whinging phase that you’re currently occupying).
And again, membership in A+ is completely voluntary no one is forcing you to join. Only those who think that social justice and feminism are worthy causes are joining A+, if you’re not down with that, cool.
Keep calm and carry on.
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September 22, 2012 at 10:56 am
bismarket
Can’t anybody see what’s happening here? The Christians/Muslims etc’ couldn’t have done a better job of setting us against ourselves than a demagogue like PZ Myers & the followers of Ms Watson. Can’t we just forget about them & concentrate on important stuff like stopping young girls from being put to Death in Pakistan for “Supposedly” burning a Koran, or does anyone REALLY consider this fluff to be more urgent?
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September 22, 2012 at 11:12 am
The Arbourist
@bismarket
Telling people what there priorities should be is kinda of a jerkish move no? Anyways, ignoring the common trope of minorities being told by others what they should “really” be focused on, how does one group within Atheism identifying the need to embrace and act upon social justice affect the movement as a whole? If anything a more diverse movement is more robust and able to meet a greater variety of challenges.
Much of the heat and light generated over the whole A+ movement is due to people feeling the need to dump on or fix, a completely voluntary sub-group of Atheism. Problem solved if people would follow this pro-tip: If you disagree with A+, don’t join it.
As said earlier in thread, it really is that easy. Live and let live, ships passing in the night all of that sorta thing.
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September 22, 2012 at 2:27 pm
bleatmop
I have always found it odd that not harassing women and treating them as equals is somehow setting us (atheists) apart. I mean, it seems a natural extension of wanting to stop young girls being put to death. I just don’t get how when RW simply says “Don’t do that” (talking about cornering a girl in the elevator at 4 am. after she specifically said she doesn’t want advances) the response is OMG FEMINAZI BITCHFACE WHORE SLUT!! I just don’t get it.
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September 22, 2012 at 5:08 pm
The Arbourist
Acknowledging and dealing with your privilege is a tough step to take. It means reevaluating how you act and how you think, not an easy process by any standard. While some once alerted to what is going on make the effort to change, others double down and defend the status-quo even more vigourously.
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September 22, 2012 at 5:30 pm
slqblindman
Arbourist:
“Oh cupcake, this is going to be all about you and your issues isn’t it.”
Dismissive much? I suppose if you don’t have a real argument, or you feel threatened by the argument I’m presenting, then that is to be expected.
But actually, my social awareness encompasses all genders. Atheism+ is all about YOU and YOUR ISSUES isn’t it? Well fine, just don’t pretend that it is anything more than Atheism+Feminism.
“The internets are far and wide friend and in most of those spaces male-centric thoughts and concerns dominate.”
Wrong. Women actually outnumber men in participation in blogs and social websites. Educate yourself.
“Social justice and feminism are key parts of A+”
Feminism yes, that’s obvious. Other social justice issues, no. I asked you to explain how A+ can claim to be egalitarian while ignoring men’s issues, and you responded again with dismissiveness. But you are correct. The playing field is not even or balanced. I bet I can name two instances of injustice and discrimination against men for every one that you can name against women. Do you accept the challenge? Otherwise, just admit that you have no actual basis for your premise that the playing field is biased against women.
“explaining social justice and feminism to you isn’t my job (I only do that for every second dude I talk with on the net, and you’re not it, sorry).”
A rather transparent way of admitting that you can’t defend your beliefs.
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September 22, 2012 at 5:34 pm
slqblindman
bleatmop:
I have always found it odd that being concerned about men and treating them as equals is somehow setting us (atheists) apart. I mean, it seems a natural extension of wanting to promote equality in our courtrooms, in our schools, and in our healthcare system. I just don’t get how whenever men’s issues are raised among A+ the response is OMG MRA PATRIARCHY WHAT ABOUT THE MENZ.
I just don’t get it.
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September 22, 2012 at 9:19 pm
slqblindman
Arbourist:
“Acknowledging and dealing with your privilege is a tough step to take. It means reevaluating how you act and how you think, not an easy process by any standard.”
Too true.
“While some once alerted to what is going on make the effort to change, others double down and defend the status-quo even more vigourously.”
So…which one are you? Oh yes, the double-down type…
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September 22, 2012 at 10:37 pm
The Arbourist
@SBM
Now why would I want to argue with you when you have repeatedly demonstrated a decidedly toxic level of uncharitable behaviour? Your hackles are up, you are in defensive attack mode and certainly not open to different points of view. So why engage? Do you actually think that your responses are anything out of the ordinary? I’m sorry to break it to you cupcake but the special just isn’t in your snowflake today.
What a load of hooey. If you knew sweet-frack about social awareness you would understand what privilege and discrimination are and the power gradient inherent in society. You have demonstrated *repeatedly* a supernovae grade level of ignorance of the feminist theory you purport to oppose. You are guilty of whinging, not doing your homework and uncharitable behaviour a far cry from the critical though you lament about in your original comment.
Lol. Mirroring my commentary while inserting your specious nonsense illustrates a distinct lack of argumentative prowess. Is your secret weapon I am rubber and you’re glue what you say bounces off me and sticks to you? – facile but seemingly at your particular level.
Yes because the internets are definitely a female dominated sexism free safe space. You’re just fishing now – looking for something to say “I win” with. Do try and stick to the topic at hand.
No kidding, its almost like I had made a polite request for you to do some research and try for a charitable interpretation of the position you have decided to argue against. But you didn’t, and most likely won’t because learning seems to be a little to hard for you, again you’re the unlucky second dude who I’m not going to spend the time educating on how feminism, patriarchy and privilege work. They were linked previously, do try to read for comprehension.
Yes, I am correct thank you for that one ray of intelligence you’ve allowed to shine through your unenlightened discourse. Are you really going to say that men are more discriminated against than women? Really? I can see why you were banned from the A+ forums, you decidedly miss the point, fail to read/do your homework and most certainly fail to be charitable to the opposing side.
Dude, why would I bother? You argue with neither honesty or integrity. Here is where you get to claim your victory in all your dudely argumentative(?) prowess. Congratulations. :)
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September 22, 2012 at 10:39 pm
The Arbourist
@SBM
You really don’t have a clue do you. This is priceless. Thank you for coming to my blog it has been most entertaining.
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September 22, 2012 at 10:53 pm
slqblindman
“Now why would I want to argue with you when you have repeatedly demonstrated a decidedly toxic level of uncharitable behaviour?”
Pot meet kettle. You’re the one being dismissive. You’re the one who’s not putting forth any arguments or facts. You’re the one engaging in name-calling. You’re the one being patronizing.
No, I’m confident any reasonable person reading this exchange will see which one of us is trying to engage in a discussion, and which is engaging in toxic behavior.
“You have demonstrated *repeatedly* a supernovae grade level of ignorance of the feminist theory you purport to oppose.”
I don’t care a whit about feminist theory. I’m concerned with feminist fact. My primary point is that feminism’s claim to be egalitarian is a lie. I’ve demonstrated as much. Therefor feminist theory is a lie.
But hey, if you’re so enlightened and knowledgeable regarding feminist theory, how about actually citing some of it rather than simply claiming that I don’t know it? But you better be prepared to back it up with evidence.
So you concede that you were incorrect regarding your statement that the internet it “male-centric”? Great, perhaps we are making some progress. I assume you’ll be more careful and informed when stating your opinions in the future.
“Are you really going to say that men are more discriminated against than women? Really?”
Yes. And I’m prepared to defend that position. So are you up to the challenge I issued before or not?
I’m guessing you’re not.
More likely you’ll just post another contentless response.
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September 22, 2012 at 10:56 pm
markov
zomg you are killing atheism!
what will the christian and muslim et cetera neighbors think?
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September 23, 2012 at 7:57 am
The Arbourist
My my, it is nice to see the MRA in you.
Nope, as I said before discussing 101 level issues is something I do with every second dude. You’ve made it abundantly clear that you won’t do your homework, learn or be charitable. Thus you are a waste of time and anymore effort on my part. I am feeling kind though so here is your homework.
If you can identify why this statement is the crux of why I won’t engage with you, you’ll get a cookie, not to mention you’ll have a clue why you get the reactions the way you do. You earned a week vacation from here to do your homework. If you can come up with a reasonable response by next Sunday maybe we can actually talk. Or don’t. I’m good with that either way.
Is that the manosphere I hear calling, why yes it is…and its for you! They would love to hear about your awesome take down of feminism and the rest of the really important things you have to say.
Enjoy your vacation.
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September 23, 2012 at 9:56 am
The Arbourist
@markov
I know. Guilty as charged. :)
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September 23, 2012 at 1:02 pm
bleatmop
@slqblindman It’s cute how you think you’ve made an argument by being a troll. Enjoy your week off!
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September 23, 2012 at 2:04 pm
The Arbourist
@Bleatmop
I’m afraid it might be more than a week Bleat, angry dude doesn’t listen to reason well along with his other fine “critical thinking” skills. :) I’m think it might be informative, nay instructive in looking at this exchange and constructing a flow chart/infographic something along the lines “If you are arguing like this – you’re doing it wrong…”
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October 7, 2012 at 10:00 am
bismarket
@ The Arbourist. I would suggest that the recent actions by the folk at FtB should be evidence that it’s not good enough that we just don’t join them, it’s clear that they see anyone who is outside the clique they have created is seen as the enemy & will be attacked. It is only a safe place for them to venture out from & attack others while safe in the knowledge that back home they are protected from any dissenting views or even criticism. Personally i think they’re a worthless bunch of hypocrites & have more in common with certain religious groups than the Atheists they claim to be & presume to represent.☮
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October 7, 2012 at 10:05 am
slqblindman
bismarket, I hope you’re not expecting to find a more enlightened discourse on this blog…
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October 7, 2012 at 10:30 am
The Arbourist
@bismarket
FTB is a large conglomerate of people writing on many topics. What were the sentiments that led you to the conclusion that they are creating a clique? (I went and checked a few of the bigger names, I didn’t find much in the way of in/out group establishment.)
I’m guessing it would have to be the nature of the dissenting views and/or the criticism. I’m hypothesizing that criticism regarding 101 levels of methodology are not warmly received.
I’m pretty sure they are cool with that as membership in A+ is completely voluntary. If the social justice/feminism angle in addition to atheism isn’t your bag, then ignore the Aplusers, keep calm and carry on.
Here though at DWR, feminism and social justice along with atheism is our bag, hence our identification with what A+ is all about.
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October 7, 2012 at 11:04 am
The Arbourist
@SBM
Oh hai! You’re back from vacation. Have you considered the question from our last foray? Considering your forced Socratic sabbatical, I hope you’ve mulled over the point of it.
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October 7, 2012 at 11:22 am
slqblindman
Oh hai! Have you found enough courage to engage in an actual discussion?
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October 7, 2012 at 1:27 pm
The Arbourist
@SBM
For one who gets in a huff about making disparaging comments you certainly engage in said behaviour often enough. But enough fun and games for now.
By actual discussion do you mean a charitable representation of both sides of the issue, or more of what we’ve just been though? If you recall, the required homework for this discussion to continue is still on the table.
Answer and we can continue, continue with the bloviating and we shall not.
Why is the question I asked important? Because, if studied and carefully answered it would reveal the axiomatic differences we have about how society is run and the problems faced by those who inhabit said society. From your statements to date, you have shown a distinct lack of charity for what is an accurate depiction of how society works.
Dismissing feminist theory removes the basis for our discussion, not to mention the denialism provides great fodder for your distortions of what feminism is and how it affects you.
I suspect we’ll go down that road, but as I’ve been having discussions elsewhere, you’re no longer the dude who I won’t go through feminism 101 with. *woo* With gems like this:
We’ll undoubtedly have much to discuss, or not depending on the answer to the question posed to you early in thread. I’ll even copypasta the question for you –
If you can identify why this statement is the crux of why I won’t engage with you, you’ll get a cookie, not to mention you’ll have a clue why you get the reactions the way you do.
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October 8, 2012 at 6:35 am
bismarket
“Here though at DWR, feminism and social justice along with atheism is our bag” It appears you think you hold the Monopoly on “Caring”? Good luck with that. A bunch of wannabees that talk the talk but (apart from blogging) do precious little IRL to change anything except harass those that most people consider allies in order to score points with each other. IMO your not helping your hindering the very real efforts some people are trying to make & in all serious journalism that ive seen A+ get a mention, it’s been judged a waste of time & effort. Mostly A+ is seen as a joke, only not a very funny one & a little offensive.
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October 8, 2012 at 6:48 am
bismarket
Your even starting to sound like those religious types that are so sure that they have the “Only way”. Serious journalists that have commented on A+ see it as superfluous & IMO it is irrelevant. I would prefer it if you could try not to insinuate that unless you belong with/to A+ you can’t really be interested in feminism and social justice. I have seen a lot of talk on Blogs etc’ but little stuff achieved IRL except damage to those i would consider allies & think the only reason those people were attacked was because they didn’t agree with your methods &/or attitude & i agree with them.
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October 8, 2012 at 6:52 am
bismarket
My wordpress account was playing up. My apologies for the double comments.
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October 8, 2012 at 7:47 am
The Arbourist
@bismarket
Nope. Just my atheism comes with a little more stuff to consider. It always has, but now it has a name.
Awesome. I am completely down with that. Usually it means you are doing something right.
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October 8, 2012 at 8:11 am
The Arbourist
@Bismarket
Rather than insinuate what others are not the A+ is designed to designate what Iam interested in. If you’re not happy with A+’s stated goals, then don’t identify with them. It really is that easy.
Errr…it is the blogosphere lotsa talk and little end result is the norm.
We’re going to have to agree on whether important stuff happens on the internet or not, as it would seem it holds a bifurcated value for you of being not important in RL but at the same time capable of serious damage and implications via attacking other people.
Really? I have not seen that at all. On this particular thread it has been a labour of trying to get people to engage their critical thinking skills on issues that are important in society – patriarchy, privilege, rape culture etc, are all pertinent problems that deserve attention. As an atheist I have used my critical faculties to see that believing in magic books and fairy tales is waste of time, applying these same critical faculties to social justice concerns and feminism is just a natural extension of what having a reasoned platform to contemplate life is about for me.
Nothing stated here has taken away (or really even added to) from the Atheist movement, DWR is certainly not a bastion of the atheist nexus holding back the tide of religious B.S that threatens to choke the very life from Reason and Rationality (although it would be cool if it was).
Thus concluding, along with my reasoned defense of being godless, I hold the radical notion that women are people too and thus when I see misogyny, sexism and all the other fun effects of Patriarchy in action I do what I can to bring the noise and call that shite out, because it has no place in a rational, civilized society.
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October 8, 2012 at 11:44 pm
slqblindman
“By actual discussion do you mean a charitable representation of both sides of the issue, or more of what we’ve just been though? If you recall, the required homework for this discussion to continue is still on the table.”
Yes, I read the links you posted. Now are you ready to participate and respond to my challenges? Probably not…
“Why is the question I asked important? Because, if studied and carefully answered it would reveal the axiomatic differences we have about how society is run and the problems faced by those who inhabit said society. From your statements to date, you have shown a distinct lack of charity for what is an accurate depiction of how society works.”
Uhmm…..such as?
I even challenged you to compare facts about how our society works. You declined to step up to the table. Are you ready now?
“Dismissing feminist theory removes the basis for our discussion”
Your dogma is showing. A theist would say the exact same thing in order to deflect actual rational analysis of their beliefs.
Really, its getting absolutely ridiculous the lengths you’ll go to in order to avoid actually thinking about your beliefs. If you’re so confident, why are you afraid to respond to me?
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October 13, 2012 at 2:53 pm
The Arbourist
@SBM – (from sept 22 – 5:30pm)
Okay, you’ve said you have done your homework and looked and carefully studied the links I provided for you.
Given the power gradient in society, with white men at the top and women of colour at the bottom trying to frame any sort of egalitarian concerns with specific incidences is ludicrous. And here is why -this is what you said:
The dominant class is not oppressed by the subordinate class as a whole in society. What you are doing is like pointing to affirmative action and saying – damn look at all those black people they have got it so good, just look at all of them do so well. Yet, if you look at the structural features of society, another picture emerges, one of systematic racism and discrimination, on every level.
Asking who can make the longer list of injustices while ignoring the structure of society shows a keen lack of understanding of how the systematic features of society such as racism and patriarchy work.
Fortunately, you’ve done your homework and can see where I’m coming from right? Right?
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October 13, 2012 at 2:59 pm
The Arbourist
@SBM October 8th.
A rational analysis would require understanding of the base concepts of how power and privilege work in society. As to date, you have not exhibited any acumen in either topic, but show a rather base tendency to want to compare lists, this isn’t the oppression olympics or if it is, it is a really bad facsimile thereof.
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October 14, 2012 at 10:12 pm
slqblindman
Finally! I’d pretty much given up any hope of getting even a semblance of an argument out of you.
And a semblance is what I got.
Now its my turn to educate you.
“Given the power gradient in society, with white men at the top and women of colour at the bottom trying to frame any sort of egalitarian concerns with specific incidences is ludicrous.”
Feminists such as yourself love to portray men as holding all the positions of power, as if ranking 10 random men and 10 random women would yield something like this:
1. M
2. M
3. M
4. M
5. M
6. W
7. W
8. W
9. W
10. W
..as if all men had dominance over all women in your so-called “patriarchal society”. This allows you to continually portray yourself as victims. But the truth is that the distribution is more like this:
1. M
2. M
3. W
4. W
5. M
6. W
7. W
8. W
9. M
10. M
…with men over-represented at both the top and the bottom rungs of society. The wealthiest individuals are men, and the most impoverished individuals are men. Those with the highest paying jobs are men, and those with the lowest paying, least desirable jobs are also men. So your statement that “The dominant class is not oppressed by the subordinate class as a whole in society.” fails for the simple reason that men, as a group, are NOT the dominant class in society. Therefore, it is perfectly valid to compare injustices suffered or imposed upon each gender if, as feminists insist upon doing, you want to portray women as victims of systematic and institutionalized discrimination. So, game on.
“What you are doing is like pointing to affirmative action and saying – damn look at all those black people they have got it so good, just look at all of them do so well.”
No, I am not. And trying to compare the discrimination you experience as a woman to the discrimination people of color have and continue to experience is pretty damn shameful. I’d avoid that comparison if I were you, because it frankly does not help your case.
“Asking who can make the longer list of injustices while ignoring the structure of society shows a keen lack of understanding of how the systematic features of society such as racism and patriarchy work.”
No, its asking to begin a discussion with actual facts which, contrary to your assertion, IS the first step towards rational analysis.
I would not ask a person claiming racial injustice to justify his or her position based on a comparison of examples for the simple reason that I think I would lose. But I’m perfectly willing to enter into such a comparison with feminists because I am absolutely confident that the amount of discrimination they claim is almost entirely unjustified.
So in short, I think your post was nothing more than a dodge to avoid actually looking at facts. You prefer to stay safe and warm in the comfort of your dogma.
You and other feminists assert that women in Western society are subject to disproportionate levels of discrimination. I’m asking you to back that up with facts. If you’re not up to the task, don’t feel bad. I haven’t found any other feminists who can engage in rational reality-based argument either.
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October 15, 2012 at 11:43 am
bleatmop
Fact Free Arguments. Light, fluffy and 100% guaranteed to fulfill your confirmation bias. Added benefits include keeping your mind vapid and free of rational thought. For those who like to think, but not too hard.
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October 15, 2012 at 9:00 pm
slqblindman
Since up to this point I’m the only one who has wanted a fact-based discussion, it’s evident that you have returned to sticking your head in a sandbox full of irony.
Whatever. Let’s work with the tiny snippet of an argument you did put forth:
Premise: White men are at the top of the power gradient.
Conclusion: Therefore, men cannot be the subject of oppression/discrimination.
But I’ve shown that the premise is incorrect. IE: even if the top of the power gradient is composed of males, one cannot say that males are at the top of the power gradient. Males also make up the bottom of the power gradient.
And even if we assume your premise, the conclusion does not follow. You have asserted that those in a dominant class cannot be the subjects of unfair treatment, but you have not demonstrated it.
Thus, both your premise and your logic are flawed, meaning that your argument is simultaneously unsound and invalid. A pretty poor track record, since even William Lane Craig usually manages to hit one of those two.
Now, are you going to respond with logic and facts? Or are you just going to retreat to name-calling, dismissal, and ad hominem attacks again?
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October 15, 2012 at 10:04 pm
bleatmop
I’ll probably keep up with the dismissive responses, though Arb is usually much more charitable with folk like you. I find your responses humorous because you demand evidence but you confabulate your own “facts” and have nothing to back them up. You assert that we hold positions that we do not. Your rankings of men of women 1-10 is a perfect example of this. You bring nothing to this conversation but rhetoric. But hey, continue to dismiss anything that is told to you, twist it into strawmen and then do some sort of pagan dance around said strawmen. It seems to be entertaining you so far.
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October 15, 2012 at 10:09 pm
slqblindman
Exactly which fact are you disputing? That men make are disproportionately represented in the lower rungs of society? Or that men take the least desirable jobs? Because I’m more than happy to back up either of those claims, but I’m not going to waste time explaining what should be common knowledge unless you first confess your ignorance and put your own reputation on the line.
And as far as I can see in this thread, I’m the only one who has offered to backup up their claims.
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October 16, 2012 at 5:19 am
slqblindman
…and for that matter bleatmop, what positions have I incorrectly attributed to you? I’ll certainly change my argument if you wish to clarify your opinions.
You and “Arb” have demonstrated a pattern of making assertions and then failing to back them up with any evidence or examples.
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October 27, 2012 at 9:54 am
The Arbourist
@SBM
I’m sure it will be illuminating.
Let’s just stop there. How is random sample of 10(!) people indicative of anything? You bray about lack of evidence being presented and then choose to begin *your* arguments with hypothetical nonsense?
You’ve said you’ve followed the links and done the reading. It is obvious that you have not. You’re just making stuff up now based on your particular twisted version of what patriarchy is and how it works in society.
This is factually incorrect, and thus arguments based on this idea are also incorrect. Women are the most impoverished, in America and the world over. Consider –
Wow. Completely wrong again.
I’m not sure how you arrive at this conclusion, but considering that your other assumptions have been proven to be baseless, we can assume that this statement is also false –
So yes, there is a power gradient in society, and men are at the top and women of colour at the bottom.
This, like any conclusion based on faulty premises must also be false.
Given your discernible lack of argumentative prowess, I’m not inclined to take your advice.
Comparing racism and sexism is one the most powerful ways to illustrate to dudes like yourself “who just don’t see it” that systematic institutionalized sexism exists and is rampant in society.
Oh you mean like pulling random samples out of your ass and then basing arguments on them? That is craptacular argumentation at its finest. Do you have any idea what rationality is, I’m guessing you don’t because to argue rationally…heck even coherently you need to bring some sort of proof to the table and support it with evidence. You make the positive claim that men are over-represented at the top and bottom of society – show me the evidence that backs you claim, further more show me how that is relevant in light of that women still make up the majority of the impoverished in society in economic and social terms (hint: its in the links to the US Census).
That is because you conveniently ignore facts. Wow, I get to entreat you to do your homework *again* because your comprehension in this subject is so poor. Learn about social stratification and the historical implications and conclusions that have been drawn – take a a sociology 101 class, it would do wonders for you, honest.
I have. I would speculate that “other feminists” have much less patience that I because of your propensity to ignore arguments, facts and not do your homework.
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November 1, 2012 at 11:27 pm
slqblindman
“Women are the most impoverished, in America”
False.
“Most studies show that single homeless adults are more likely to be male than female. In 2007, a survey by the U.S. Conference of Mayors found that of the population surveyed 35% of the homeless people who are members of households with children are male while 65% of these people are females. However, 67.5% of the single homeless population is male, and it is this single population that makes up 76% of the homeless populations surveyed (U.S. Conference of Mayors, 2007).”
http://www.nationalhomeless.org/factsheets/who.html
This supports my statement that men represent the lowest rungs of society as well as the highest, and therefore while the top of the power gradient may be composed of men, men as a whole do not make up the top of the power gradient and your argument that they cannot be the subjects of discrimination and oppression is disproved.
The “77 cents on the dollar” myth has been debunked many times. Do you really want to argue that? Because I’ll end up making you look very foolish. You might want to research the refutation yourself before you dig a pit for yourself.
“How is random sample of 10(!) people indicative of anything?”
“Oh you mean like pulling random samples out of your ass and then basing arguments on them?”
I never presented any random sample. I gave an illustration. Are you so obtuse as not to understand that? Where did I ever claim that was a random sample? Where did I ever claim it had statistical validity? In fact, I was claiming the hypothetical distribution was NOT valid.
Please, think before you type next time.
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November 3, 2012 at 6:49 pm
slqblindman
Your argument, summarized, is as follows.
The dominant positions in the power structure are occupied by men.
The dominant positions in the power structure cannot be the subject of discrimination or oppression.
Therefore, men cannot be the subject of discrimination or oppression.
…which is akin to arguing as follows:
Squares are rectangles.
Squares cannot have one side longer than another.
Therefore, rectangles cannot have one side longer than another.
And of course, the irony is that you accuse me of a lack of argumentative prowess…
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November 4, 2012 at 8:23 am
The Arbourist
@ SBM
You really have no idea how to charitably argue do you?
Or do you honestly believe that the argument quoted above reflects the best of what I have to offer? Reframing an argument to make it weaker and easier to attack does show poor argumentative skills.
This is what you’re actively misconstruing –
Do you see anywhere where I said that “all men” are not subject to discrimination? I certainly do not. That would mean that this idea and I quote:
was made up by you and not me.
Comparing the two quoted arguments one can conclude (based on the evidence presented) that indeed you have set up a strawman to bash by -surprise! – being uncharitable to the original argument(as usual).
So, this is usually the part where you say I’m not answering your argument – and my response is, as usual – do your homework and comeback with something that isn’t a gross caricature of coherent thought.
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November 4, 2012 at 10:32 am
slqblindman
Here’s the corner in to which you’ve painted yourself, arbourist.
Either discrimination against men is possible, or it is not possible.
If you claim it is not possible, then please provide an argument or evidence to support your premise.
If you acknowledge that it is possible, then that discrimination either does or does not actually occur.
If you claim it does not actually occur, then I am prepared to give you actual examples to refute your claim.
If you acknowledge that discrimination against men does actually occur, then that discrimination is either significant or it is not significant.
If you acknowledge that it is significant, then the ommision of Men’s issues from Atheist+ discussions and priorities is concrete evidence that they are not an egalitarian movement and are, in fact, bigoted and discriminatory.
If you claim that it is not significant, then my challenge to compare instances of discrimination against men with instances of discrimination against women is a valid challenge, and still stands unaccepted.
So, where do your opinions fall in this logical progression?
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November 4, 2012 at 11:46 am
The Arbourist
@SBM
You really don’t read for comprehension do you?
You have demonstrated again an utter lack being able to understand what I am saying, even when the relevant parts of my argument are helpfully bolded in for you. The strawman, that you bring again, is what you are reading into my argument it is patently not what I’m saying.
Which words do I need to define for you? Systemic? Structural features? Let me slow it down for you –
In this specific statement I am saying that as a CLASS, men are not oppressed by women as a CLASS in society. This is a generalization and most people when they see the use of the term “CLASS” figure that shit out.
Here I am saying that qualities of our society colour the interactions on a global level – and looking at how the parts operate (systematic features) racism, discrimination and I’ll add misogyny exist on ever level of society. It is the accepted background societal “hum” in which we exist.
Nowhere in my arguments do I say that discrimination against men does not exist. However, the way that society is made up favours men and discriminates against women.
Specific incidences where men are discriminated against exist and are causes for concern. However, in the light of the systematic discrimination women face in society fixing that first, would (speaking strictly utilitarianly) would do the most good in combating inequality in society.
Somewhere upthread I linked to the idea of Patriarchy – if you’d simply read and understood that basic fact we wouldn’t be here right now.
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