I think that getting to know the people of your neighbourhood is scary but necessary activity. I’m an introvert, but I’ve brainstormed some ideas to try out if you happen to be feeling extra adventurous. :)
1. **Organize a Neighborhood Clean-Up Day** – Rally a few neighbors for a group effort to tidy up parks, streets, or common areas. Bring some gloves, bags, and maybe even snacks to share afterward.
2. **Start a Little Free Library or Pantry** – Set up a small box where people can exchange books or non-perishable food items. It’s a simple way to encourage sharing and connection.
3. **Check In on Elderly or Isolated Neighbors** – A quick knock on the door or a friendly chat can brighten someone’s day and help them feel included. Offer to grab groceries if they need it.
4. **Plant Something Together** – Whether it’s flowers along a sidewalk, a tree in a yard, or a small community garden, greenery lifts everyone’s mood and improves the area.
5. **Host a Casual Get-Together** – A low-key barbecue, potluck, or even a coffee meet-up in a driveway can help neighbors get to know each other. Stronger bonds mean a stronger community.
6. **Share Skills or Tools** – Offer to teach something simple—like fixing a bike tire—or lend out a ladder or shovel. It builds trust and saves people money.
7. **Put Up Positive Signs** – Something as small as a “You’ve Got This!” or “Smile, Neighbor!” sign in your yard can spread good vibes.
These don’t have to be big projects—just small, consistent acts that show you care. What do you think might work best where you live?
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April 7, 2025 at 6:46 am
Carmen
Good morning Arb! I am sure you’ve been reading that one way to combat what is happening in our world (and also to stave off authoritarianism) is to develop strong communities. In the part of the world I live in, we adhere to that principle. Right now, in our community of about 200 people, we have exercises at the Hall three times/week, today is quilting day (every Monday) and we have coffee hour Wednesday every two weeks. We also host a monthly potluck supper. At the end of this month, we start hosting our monthly breakfasts- which is our major fundraiser for the year. Much social activity there! Beach clean-up is another very well-attended activity; we attract many people for that one. (One year it was held on the same day as the breakfast, so we got all those volunteers!) I know that many shoreline communities feel the same way we do; in the Maritimes these are common activities along the Bay of Fundy. We even have a few introverts on the Board of the Community Hall. ..wink!
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April 7, 2025 at 6:55 am
tildeb
Social interaction and integration doesn’t have to be intentional or even activity based. All it really requires is a willingness to interact when the opportunity presents itself.
In our case, my spouse and I walk the neighbourhood (about 4K) twice a day (including dodgy areas) mostly for exercise (we joke that our shoes are our ‘gym memberships’). We do this every day in all weather. People who rarely venture forth but see us pass by so often seem to treat us as long time friends when we do have an encounter. We exchange pleasantries and greetings and often surprisingly friendly conversations on those rare occasions. That interaction over time then turns into friendly waves and the tap of a horn from those who see us individually or separately when seen elsewhere in the city.
Familiarity and a willingness to socially engage (younger people generally fail to respond to a greeting or intentionally avoid any eye contact to stay socially isolated and insulated with electronic devices like ear buds to block out sounds and phones to stare at to block out reality) seems to be all it takes.
Neighbours we do often encounter almost always take a moment to socially engage further and this provides the opportunity to learn more about them and their families through exchanging comments and updates on local issues, people, and states of affairs generally. So, we have found that over time, this simple daily activity produces a wider sense of community not just for us but in the minds of others. And this in turn has led to deepening friendships and further engagements with those who live around us.
We notice when things are different. This leads to a sense of being connected to others not just by proximity but by familiarity (concerned neighbours often ask us if we’ve noticed this or that or heard anything about their neighbours) so that when events – good and bad – happen to people there is a wide pool of those who are interested… everything from responding to criminal activity as larger group to stepping up and helping out when individuals require it.
Anyway, my point is that we – meaning any of us – only get back what we are willing to put into stuff. This is especially true of building community. Sure, it can be an organized events, but it can also be as simple as going for a regular walk and be willing to socially engage with those we meet.
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April 7, 2025 at 9:47 am
The Arbourist
@Carmen
Good morning! It’s so inspiring to hear how your community of 200 is thriving with such a strong sense of togetherness. Exercises at the Hall, quilting Mondays, coffee hours, potlucks, and those monthly breakfast fundraisers—wow, you’ve got a vibrant lineup! The beach clean-up sounds like a fantastic draw too, especially when it syncs up with the breakfast crowd. It’s amazing to see how these activities along the Bay of Fundy are bringing people together, introverts included (love that wink!). You’re really proving how strong communities can stand up to anything—thanks for sharing such a positive example! :)
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April 7, 2025 at 9:50 am
The Arbourist
@tildeb
Love how your daily walks turn into a community-building win; I’m a walker as well, and I see many similarities in our experiences. :)
It’s cool that just being out there and open to a quick hello can spark real connections over time. You’re spot-on—putting in a little effort, even casually, pays off big in belonging
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