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Building on David Halperin’s view of queer as opposition to societal norms, Judith Butler and Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick expanded queer theory into a deeper critique of how culture constructs identity. Both scholars dismantled binary thinking—male/female, heterosexual/homosexual—and recast queer as a method of disruption rather than a label of identity. Their work helps explain why queer today functions as both a tool of liberation and a source of confusion in activism.
Judith Butler: Gender as Performance
In Gender Trouble (1990), Butler argues that gender is performative, not an inner truth but a social act repeated until it feels natural. She writes:
“Gender is an identity tenuously constituted in time, instituted in an exterior space through a stylized repetition of acts.”
In simple terms, gender isn’t something we are; it’s something we do—a performance shaped by cultural expectations. Butler points to drag as the clearest example:
“In imitating gender, drag implicitly reveals the imitative structure of gender itself—as well as its contingency.”
By showing how gender can be exaggerated and parodied, drag exposes its artificial construction. The idea that “drag is life and life is drag” captures Butler’s insight: our daily behaviors—clothing, speech, posture—continually recreate gender norms.
To “queer” gender, then, means to expose and subvert these routines. This view empowered movements challenging rigid gender roles, though it has also been misapplied in activism to deny the material reality of biological sex, leading to conceptual confusion between gender and sex.
Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick: The Open Mesh of Meaning
In Epistemology of the Closet (1990), Sedgwick broadened queer into a conceptual space where meanings overlap and resist closure. She writes:
“That’s one of the things that ‘queer’ can refer to: the open mesh of possibilities, gaps, overlaps, dissonances and resonances, lapses and excesses of meaning when the constituent elements of anyone’s gender, of anyone’s sexuality aren’t made (or can’t be made) to signify monolithically.”
For Sedgwick, queer describes a fluid network of meanings—a refusal to let identity solidify into fixed categories. This “open mesh” fosters inclusivity and complexity, inviting individuals to exist beyond rigid classifications. Yet, when applied too broadly, it risks erasing distinctions among groups and experiences, turning inclusivity into abstraction.
Queer as Liberation—and Its Limits
Butler and Sedgwick turned queer from a noun into a verb—something one does to challenge norms. Their theories helped dismantle oppressive binaries and opened new space for expression. But when translated into activism, queer sometimes loses its analytical precision. By denying all boundaries, it can undermine the very identities and realities it once sought to liberate.
In essence, queer remains a double-edged concept:
- It liberates by revealing the instability of identity.
- It destabilizes by dissolving the shared meanings that make political organization possible.
Understanding both sides of that tension is key to engaging queer theory honestly—and to applying it responsibly in public discourse.
Key Takeaways
- 1. Butler’s “performative gender” means gender is produced through repeated social acts, not innate essence.
- 2. Sedgwick’s “open mesh” describes queer as fluid meaning that defies fixed categories.
- 3. Both see queer as a method of critique—liberating but unstable when detached from material or social realities.
References
Butler, Judith. Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity. Routledge, 1990.
Sedgwick, Eve Kosofsky. Epistemology of the Closet. University of California Press, 1990
What does “queer” actually mean? Far from a simple label for sexual minorities, queer theory defines itself in opposition to normality. Drawing on David Halperin’s Saint Foucault, this piece explains how queer became a philosophical stance of resistance—an “identity without an essence.”
The word queer has traveled a long road—from an insult meaning “strange” or “abnormal” to a proud rallying cry and the foundation of an entire intellectual movement: queer theory. At its core, the term doesn’t just describe sexual minorities; it represents a philosophical rebellion against everything considered “normal.”
One of the most influential queer theorists, David M. Halperin, explains this in his 1995 book Saint Foucault: Towards a Gay Hagiography. For Halperin, queer is not a stable identity but a position of resistance.
“Queer identity need not be grounded in any positive truth or in any stable reality. As the very word implies, ‘queer’ does not name some natural kind or refer to some determinate object; it acquires its meaning from its oppositional relation to the norm. Queer is by definition whatever is at odds with the normal, the legitimate, the dominant… It is an identity without an essence.”
(Halperin, 1995, p. 62)
In plain language, queer is not like gay or lesbian, which refer to specific sexual orientations. Queer means whatever challenges or defies the normal order. It’s an umbrella term for standing against social expectations—whether those expectations involve heterosexual marriage, gender roles, family structure, or even conventional ideas of decency or success.
Halperin calls it “an identity without an essence.” That means being queer isn’t about belonging to a group with shared traits; it’s about rejecting the very idea of fixed identity. If society defines what’s “normal,” queer theory defines itself by refusing that definition. It is a form of perpetual opposition.
He even jokes that queer could include “some married couples without children, or even (who knows?) some married couples with children—with, perhaps, very naughty children.” His point is that queer has no natural limits. Anything that unsettles the norms of family, sexuality, or respectability can count as queer.
Queer as Permanent Rebellion
In this sense, queer is not just a sexual category—it’s a political and philosophical stance. It seeks to expose and subvert the power structures that make certain ways of living “normal” and others “deviant.”
To be queer, in Halperin’s sense, is to stand in intentional opposition to society’s standards of legitimacy, authority, and order. That’s why queer theorists often speak of “queering” institutions—education, law, art, religion—meaning to challenge or destabilize their traditional foundations.
This also means that queer can never be fully accepted into normal society without losing its essence. The moment it becomes “normal,” it ceases to be queer. Its identity depends on remaining at odds with whatever is considered conventional, natural, or moral.
What This Reveals
For ordinary readers trying to make sense of today’s cultural debates, this definition clarifies something crucial: “queer” doesn’t simply describe non-heterosexual people. It’s a theoretical commitment to resisting normativity itself.
Where older gay rights movements sought inclusion—the right to marry, raise families, and participate equally in civic life—queer theory often seeks subversion: to question whether those norms should exist at all. It replaces the pursuit of equality with the pursuit of deconstruction.
In short, queer stands in opposition to what most people call normal life—not necessarily out of hatred for it, but out of a conviction that “normality” itself is a social construct that limits freedom. Understanding that distinction helps explain why many ordinary people feel confused or alienated by “queer” politics today: it is not asking to join society, but to transform or even overturn its organizing principles.
Key Takeaways: What “Queer” Actually Means
- 1. Queer is not an identity, it’s opposition.
“Queer” doesn’t describe who someone is but how they stand—against whatever society considers normal, moral, or legitimate. - 2. Queer has no fixed boundaries.
Anything that defies traditional norms—about sex, family, gender, or behavior—can be called queer. It’s a fluid, open-ended stance of resistance. - 3. Queer exists only in contrast to the normal.
The concept depends on rejecting normality itself. The moment “queer” becomes accepted or mainstream, it loses its defining feature—its rebellion.

Reference
Halperin, David M. Saint Foucault: Towards a Gay Hagiography. Oxford University Press, 1995, p.
In October 2025, Brighton witnessed a stark confrontation between feminist and trans activist groups, culminating in the vandalism of the FiLiA conference venue by the direct-action group Bash Back. This incident has sparked widespread debate over the boundaries of free speech, the safety of women-only spaces, and the tactics employed in the defense of trans rights.

In the seaside city of Brighton, where the English Channel laps against shores long synonymous with progressive ideals, a gathering of women became the target of deliberate aggression last weekend. The FiLiA conference—Europe’s largest feminist event, drawing over 2,400 delegates from around the world—convened from October 10 to 12, 2025, to confront the unyielding realities of women’s lives: domestic abuse, sexual violence, lesbian safety, anti-racism, health equity, and political organizing. What should have been a sanctuary for sisterhood instead became a stage for intimidation, vandalism, and moral inversion, carried out by activists who cloaked their belligerence in the guise of righteous victimhood. This was no spontaneous protest; it was an orchestrated assault on women’s autonomy, executed through the psychological tactic known as DARVO—Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender—flipping aggressor and victim roles to confuse and shame the true defenders.
FiLiA, the Feminist International Leadership and Action charity, has championed women’s voices and sex-based rights since its founding in 1982 as Feminists in London. Rebranded in 2019, the organization organizes workshops, advocacy campaigns, and international solidarity events, explicitly excluding male speakers to foster unmediated discourse. Alumni include figures like J.K. Rowling, and sessions routinely interrogate male violence without apology. In Brighton, hosted at the council-owned Brighton Centre, FiLiA aimed to advance this mission amid escalating threats to female-only spaces. Organizers preemptively requested a Public Spaces Protection Order from Brighton and Hove Council to mitigate anticipated disruptions, only to be rebuffed—a decision that left delegates exposed to the very dangers the conference sought to address.
The aggression began hours before the conference doors opened on October 10. Activists associated with the direct-action group Bash Back vandalized the venue: windows were shattered, purple paint—symbolizing queer defiance—splashed across entrances, and graffiti labeled FiLiA “transphobic” and worse. As women arrived on Saturday, masked protesters surrounded them, chanting, jeering, filming without consent, and blocking access to the entrance. One man was bundled into a police van amid the chaos. Sussex Police launched an investigation, but the damage was done: a conference on male violence against women had itself been disrupted by male violence.
This incident exemplifies DARVO in practice. Attacks were simultaneously denied or minimized as mere “direct action,” while FiLiA was cast as inherently bigoted for prioritizing biological sex in discussions of oppression. Reversal of victimhood followed swiftly: women convening to safeguard their rights were recast as provocateurs, deserving retaliation. Green MP Sian Berry’s comments faulting organizers for “inflaming division” exemplify this inversion, as if women’s speech is a privilege revocable at the whim of the offended. Online, Bash Back celebrated targeting “hate groups” like the LGB Alliance and Transgender Trend, further amplifying the narrative of moral righteousness while eroding accountability. Eyewitness reports indicate that many of the aggressors were male, cross-dressing in the guise of protest—a striking irony in a city branding itself a “City of Sanctuary.”
The Brighton disruption is part of a broader pattern of hostility toward women’s spaces, where the veneer of inclusivity is used to justify exclusion. Militant transactivism often prioritizes gender self-identification over material sex realities, demanding access to refuges, prisons, and sports at the expense of female safety. By framing sex-based protections as inherently “transphobic,” these tactics erode the foundations of feminism: the recognition that sex is the axis of patriarchal power and a critical factor in protecting women from violence. The FiLiA delegates were not debating abstract theory—they were strategizing for survival against rape, trafficking, and erasure. To disrupt their forum is to reinforce the patriarchal dynamics they resist.
The path forward requires vigilance and clarity. DARVO’s manipulations must be unmasked; women’s sex-based rights defended without apology; and discourse reclaimed from those who mistake volume and spectacle for moral authority. Only then can women gather safely, unmolested, to build the liberation FiLiA envisions—a liberation grounded in reality, accountability, and the enduring fight against male violence.
📚 References
- “Council refused feminists security after trans activists smashed venue.” The Times, October 10, 2025. (The Times)
- “Trans activists vandalise feminist conference.” Yahoo News Canada, October 10, 2025. (Yahoo News)
- “Trans group ‘BASH BACK’ targets Brighton Centre – FiLiA has ‘blood on their hands’.” Scene Magazine, October 10, 2025. (Scene Magazine)
- “FiLiA Conference Sparks Trans Rights Protests In Brighton.” Evrimagaci, October 10, 2025. (Evrim Ağacı)
- “FiLiA.” Wikipedia, October 2025. (Wikipedia)
- “Bash Back!” Wikipedia, October 2025. (Wikipedia)
“A celebration of diversity that silences certain voices… is not inclusive—it is ideologically selective.”
The Montreal Pride Parade’s decision to exclude Jewish organizations like Ga’ava and the Centre for Israel and Jewish Affairs (CIJA) reveals the brittle nature of contemporary inclusion. Organizers explained that the festival’s board had “made the decision to deny participation in the Pride Parade to organizations spreading hateful discourse”—widely interpreted as targeting groups perceived to hold Zionist views amid the Israeli-Palestinian conflict (National Post). Yet this rationale exposes a contradiction: a celebration of diversity that silences certain voices based on political affiliation is not inclusive—it is ideologically selective. True inclusion doesn’t retreat under pressure or disqualify those with unpopular views; it endures in the face of discomfort. By barring these organizations, Montreal Pride signals that its version of inclusion functions not as a principle, but as a privilege granted only to those aligned with a narrow ideological consensus.
Considering the Organizers’ Perspective
It’s worth acknowledging why the organizers might have made this decision. They could argue that pro-Israel groups might provoke protests or distress among participants, given the polarized nature of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. However, without specific, credible threats, this rationale appears more like a preemptive strike against ideological discomfort than a genuine safety measure. Pride has weathered controversy before—its history is one of defiance in the face of societal pushback. To retreat now suggests a prioritization of ideological purity over inclusivity.
Safety as a Pretext for Exclusion
Invoking “physical and mental safety” may appear commendable, but applying it to justify excluding Ga’ava—a Montreal-based LGBTQ+ Jewish organization—and CIJA appears unfounded in concrete threats. Ga’ava’s president characterized the exclusion as “based on flimsy, politically motivated reasons decided behind closed doors under pressure from groups that hate Jews, deny Israel’s existence, and whose members celebrated the atrocities of October 7, 2023” (i24NEWS). Who gets to determine what’s safe? In this case, the organizers prioritized avoiding discomfort among critics of Zionist expression over the dignity of those excluded. This risks prioritizing ideological comfort over genuine safety concerns.
According to CIJA’s director of strategic communications, Julien Corona, the decision represents “a dark day for the LGBTQ+ movement here in Quebec but also in all of Canada” (National Post).
The Perils of Moral Absolutism
Montreal Pride’s actions illustrate how moral certainty, when unchecked, can corrupt even the most noble ideals. By conflating the participation of Jewish organizations with “hateful discourse,” organizers implicitly deemed dissenting political views as unacceptable, suggesting their perspective is immune from challenge (i24NEWS). But in reducing disagreement to danger, they betray their own professed values of inclusion and pluralism. What remains is not a broad tent of solidarity, but a gated enclave of ideological approval.
This episode fits into a broader pattern: similar exclusions have occurred in other Pride contexts—Toronto, Chicago, Washington DC—involving Jewish symbols or groups linked to Israel/Palestine debates (Wikipedia). By excluding Ga’ava and CIJA, Montreal Pride reinforces a troubling trend: replacing complexity of identity with a simplistic tribal test.
Moreover, this isn’t the first time a social movement has been fractured by ideological litmus tests. The feminist movement, for example, has seen bitter divisions over issues like sex work and transgender rights, with some factions excluding others based on perceived ideological impurity. Similarly, the civil rights movement grappled with tensions between integrationist and separatist ideologies. In each case, moral certainty led to splintering rather than solidarity. Montreal Pride risks a similar fate if it continues down this path.
A Forward-Looking Conclusion
If Pride movements hope to sustain moral legitimacy and relevance, they must resist equating disagreement with harm. Exclusion based on political affiliation not only wounds the excluded but weakens the movement itself. Pride must recommit to its radical roots—embracing all marginalized voices, even those that spark debate—or risk losing its soul. The true test of inclusion isn’t welcoming those who agree with us; it’s extending that welcome to those who challenge us. Only then can Pride fulfill its promise as a beacon of diversity and defiance.

Works Cited
- Amador, Marisela. “Montreal Pride excludes Jewish LGBTQ+ group, citing ‘hateful discourse’.” CTV News, July 31, 2025. Link
- Corona, Julien. Quoted in “‘A dark day for the LGBTQ movement’: Montreal Pride Parade organizers bar Jewish groups from march.” National Post, August 1, 2025. Link
- “Montreal’s Pride Parade bans 2 Jewish groups.” i24NEWS, July 31, 2025. Link
- “Pride parade.” Wikipedia. Link
About fucking time the facade of youth gender medicine’s supposed infallibility is crumbling. For years, the trans rights movement has peddled the emotionally manipulative lie that denying children puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones is tantamount to signing their death warrants—a claim rooted in social blackmail rather than evidence. The Atlantic article exposes this narrative, epitomized by phrases like “Would you rather have a dead son than a live daughter?” as collapsing under scrutiny. During Supreme Court arguments in the Skrmetti case, ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio admitted there’s no evidence linking medical transition to reduced adolescent suicide rates, a concession that exposes the hollowness of the movement’s loudest rallying cry. Systematic reviews further debunk the myth, showing no increase in suicides when blockers were restricted in England. The left’s bubble, sustained by zombie facts and a refusal to engage with critics, has been punctured by undeniable truths—truths skeptics have long pointed out, only to be shouted down.
I told you so: the so-called evidence base for youth gender medicine is a house of cards built on citation laundering and ideological zeal. American clinics, deviating from the cautious Dutch protocol, often prescribe blockers on first visits, bypassing thorough assessments. WPATH, the supposed gold standard, has been caught suppressing inconvenient research, with internal doubts about weak evidence buried to protect political goals. Rachel Levine’s push to remove age minimums for surgeries was a calculated move to dodge conservative attacks, not a science-driven decision. Meanwhile, practitioners like Johanna Olson-Kennedy, who casually dismissed adolescent regret with “you can go and get [breasts],” reveal a cavalier attitude toward irreversible procedures. The left’s sanctimonious insistence on “settled science” is nothing but a confabulation, propped up by medical associations’ politically influenced consensus rather than rigorous data.
The legal system, for all its flaws, has finally dragged these lies into the light—about fucking time. Court cases like Skrmetti and Alabama’s litigation exposed WPATH’s internal admissions of shaky evidence and their efforts to muzzle researchers whose findings didn’t align with the narrative. The Cass report, dismissed by American advocates as “subjective,” challenged WPATH’s authority with systematic reviews recommending caution. Yet, the left clings to its bubble, accusing outlets like The New York Times of “manufacturing” debate. Skeptics, long vilified as bigots, have been vindicated: the evidence is inconclusive, the risks are real, and the emotional blackmail is unconscionable. Supporting trans rights doesn’t require endorsing experimental treatments for kids, and it’s high time liberals faced this reality instead of doubling down on discredited dogma.

Bibliography
- Lewis, Helen. “The Liberal Misinformation Bubble About Youth Gender Medicine.” The Atlantic, June 29, 2025. https://archive.is/1PP0D.




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