The second part of my series on conversational gambits and habits that are annoying, funnily enough, happened in the first Gambits post I made.  Go check out the comment section as I will be pulling my example for this post directly from the text of a commentor.

 

“Guilt by association” is also near the top of the list of ‘argumentative styles’ that are prevalent online and also happen to annoy me.  Let us begin.

 

 

My last post was about how people, in order to avoid arguing, conflate disagreement with hate.  Let’s search for the counter argument presented here.  Let’s break it down.

  1.  “As to the Alabama, Christian Fundamentalist position you advocate on this blog.”

Analysis:  It would be enlightening to know what the Alabama Christian Fundamentalist position is, and really if my arguments mirror theirs, does that make the argument in question wrong?

2.  “The research has already spoken (although it will refine over time).”

Analysis:  Just saying that “research has spoken” is not in anyway an argument especially if there is no evidence presented to qualify your claim.  Hitchens said that a claim presented without evidence can be be dismissed without evidence.  That is the case here.

3.  “Who knows, maybe sensitive and loving treatments will change, either way.

Analysis: This is the informal fallacy of Begging the Question.  With regards to gender affirming care and the mutilation of minors via surgery and cross-sex hormones there are no “sensitive and loving treatments” to be had.  Permanent sterilization and the amputation of healthy tissue in no way can be considered “sensitive and loving” and yet that very conclusion was embedded in the statement.

4.  “Right now, that’s where the science is.”

Analysis: This is a claim presented without evidence.  “The science” currently states that the quality of the evidence for the efficacy of Gender Affirming Care and the procedures involved is poor at best.  Several national health services, including Britain, France, Norway, Sweden, and Denmark have all either stopped or slowed GAC because of the lack of evidence.  In reality – most children that experience ‘gender dysphoria’ will have their symptoms disappear with the onset of puberty – in the range of 80% to 90% (link to study).   Be wary of anyone conclusively stating “what the science says”.  The process of doing science is never complete as with new information theories will change to move closer toward the truth.

1. “There are scientists who said smoking doesn’t kill, and those who say climate change is a leftist/Jewish hoax.  Your dissenting scientists as well as the right wing deplorables you site to trumpet them, are in that group.”

Analysis:  Several processes are going on here, let’s tackle the overarching motif first.  The setup is as follows: Group A (scientists in favour of Smoking) that, as history has illustrated, were wrong.   In Group B (Other Scientists and right-wing deplorables) are exactly the same as group A.  We should not follow group B because of a comparison (that contains a conclusion) has been drawn, in this case without charity or evidence provided.

It doesn’t follow that group B must share the same failings of group A, yet we are to condemn group B because the person who is making the argument says so.  It’s quite bizarre.

Also, to address the guild by association angle the legitimate studies and credible scientists that have found and published evidence that does not “fit” with Brian’s world view must be spuriously associated with so called ‘deplorables’ and people who were wrong in the past.   Who you are aligned with, or associate with does not affect the quality of the arguments you make.  A solid argument from a reprehensible individuals is still a solid argument regardless of social standing.

So, the guilt by association ploy is used in the place of presenting an argument that has a solid factual base.  This route of argumentation is rooted in emotional social coercion rather than presenting a counter argument that is based in fact.

 

Look at this clear example I culled from Twitter.  It fits the coercive guilt by association tactic perfectly.

It is a textbook example of how not argue.  Stay frosty and cogent folks, and learn to recognize poor argumentation when it comes your way. :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Controversial topics are hard to talk about.  What makes the process even more difficult is when one side, for whatever reason, decides that disagreeing with their position is equivalent to you *hating* their position.

The disagreement=hate confab is almost an exclusive feature of attempting to dialogue with someone on the Left of the political spectrum.  I hesitate to use the Left/Right distinction though because the terms are not describing the political reality we now inhabit.  Perhaps authoritarian vs anti-authoritarian might be a better way to describe positions these days.

Authoritarians whether on the Left or the Right seem to have a built in predisposition to thinking that their choice is the moral choice and that somehow by questioning their assertions you are questioning their morality or ethics.

It really isn’t that, at least not a first.  One must grapple with the argument the person makes not the morality or ethics the person in question happens to hold.

An easy example is a person stating the fact that women, exclusively, are adult human females.  The simple action of stating a fact can lead to accusations of hatred, discrimination, and even bigotry.

How does that even work?  My hypothesis is that when you encounter the disagreement=hate trope the person that you are dealing with isn’t willing to put the thought or effort in to make a reasonable counter-argument.  It is much easier to simply dismiss statements and thoughts that do not comport with what you hold to be true than do the work to properly refute them (also the statement in question may be closest to the truth and thus more accurate than your worldview).

Another issue is that your interlocutor may rate highly on the authoritarian scale.  Woke ideologies like transgender ideology are totalizing, for them to reach their final stage *everyone* has to believe in the ideology.  The utopian magic can’t happen until everyone is ideologically congruent thus wrong-thinkers must be converted or removed from the equation.  If you are speaking against gender ideology -for the converted it simply must be “hate” – because the ideologue is convinced that their position is not only factually correct, but morally and ethically correct as well.  Thus, the problem lies in you, not them as they have deep insight into the question, that gives them access to the “truth” and speaking against this “truth” must be hateful in nature.

It isn’t.

Being able to interrogate and critique ideas is part of the bedrock of a free society.  We need to be able to objectively look at what people say and determine for ourselves the value of their arguments.  Doing this now in society can be challenging precisely because questioning the orthodoxy is often misconstrued as “hatred”, thus speech and debate must be kept in check to stop the “hate” if one is to follow the reasoning from those who seek to limit speech in our society.

Limiting speech is such a completely terrible idea and we should really pause and consider the nature of so called progressive movements that advocate for the censure of speech in society.

Transgender ideology is riddled with contradictions.  This is because acceptance of said ideology is not based on a rational choice, but rather an emotional or coercive ploy.  This is why silencing/shaming critics of trans ideology is the preferred method of ‘discourse’ because if examined rationally the entire rotten edifice would collapse.

 

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